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Old Jan 11, 2016, 08:20 PM
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The only vibes i get are that he likes me a lot,might be somewhat inexperienced,and might be the clingier type. I'm just letting it all play out now. I kind of wish we had kissed only last night,but it's fine. I'm not 18.


How old are you? I was assuming after all of these posts that you were about 18...
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Old Jan 11, 2016, 08:22 PM
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He sent me a text about wanting to get together tonight,but i didn't reply for a variety of reasons.


That's sort of game playing.

Again, I see you putting a lot of blame on him but taking little responsibility for your role in things.
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Old Jan 11, 2016, 10:16 PM
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How old are you? I was assuming after all of these posts that you were about 18...
In my 20's. So is he.
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Old Jan 11, 2016, 10:17 PM
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That's sort of game playing.

Again, I see you putting a lot of blame on him but taking little responsibility for your role in things.
But,idk what to do or how to do it. I get a lot of fears when dating. I think it really upset him i did that and he has fears that since it took him so long to see me again after our last date back in spring,that it'll be like that again even though things are different now. I actually like him now.
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Old Jan 13, 2016, 12:54 PM
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But,idk what to do or how to do it. I get a lot of fears when dating. I think it really upset him i did that and he has fears that since it took him so long to see me again after our last date back in spring,that it'll be like that again even though things are different now. I actually like him now.

But you aren't actually dating. He came over and pretty much engaged in inappropriate behavior. It's not dating. I understand it's stressful. Dating is stressful

But dating would've he called and asked if you are off Saturday and then said lets meet for lunch/coffee/movie at ... place ( public place) and have polite conversation. That's dating.

Showing up with alcohol at your house getting intoxicated and violating you is not dating. Please please never see this man again

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