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Old May 18, 2016, 10:08 PM
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and my screen name on the porn sight is different to my name on Facebook.

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Old May 18, 2016, 10:41 PM
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Why you do you feel the need to post stuff on porn sites?
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Old May 18, 2016, 10:57 PM
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and my screen name on the porn sight is different to my name on Facebook.
Do you really think that sleezy people aren't smart enough to figure that out?
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Old May 18, 2016, 11:50 PM
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Well true that, I just didn't think people would bother plus before that I still got that type of attention you don't even want to know how many guys exposed themselves to me. Weither I be on porn sites or not I think it would have continued anyway it just on the porn sites they know and assume you want that attention.
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Old May 19, 2016, 01:27 AM
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The solution to this is ridiculously simple....

Stop posting shyt on porn sites and if you get a message on Facebook from someone you don't know... Unfriend and block them .. no need to read nonsense nor respond.

But really it all comes down to you... Social media or the internet in general can NOT harm you unless YOU allow it to.

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Old May 19, 2016, 03:26 AM
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That is true thank you and yes I stopped posting **** on porn sites I deleted my account EVERYTHING...
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Old May 19, 2016, 11:25 AM
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block the dude, change your facebook settings to not accept random friend requests and set your feed to friends only, this puts you in control of who sees your stuff, who you allow into your circle and keeps these cheap excuses for men out of your life.
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Old May 19, 2016, 12:33 PM
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and weirdo sleazebags I traditionally ignore them but then if I ignored all of them I wouldn't find the nice decent ones.
I call B.S. on this. It is because you are posting on porn sites and allowing every stranger on FB access to your page that you attract weirdo sleazebags.You have invited them in. In fact, no decent man will be attracted to you at all if they see you do that; they will run the other direction so fast you may not even be aware they were there in the first place. If you want to find decent men, you have to behave decently, have healthy boundaries that show self-respect, and get involved in activities and people who don't frequent the sleazebag circuits. This is on you. Until you change YOUR behaviors, who you are attracting will remain the same.

Do you want to find decent men? Lock down your internet presence, including FB. Get off the porn sites. Only allow people on FB that you personally know or have a legitimate association with. Get involved in life OFF the internet. Get involved in organizations, clubs, hobbies, etc. of people who are interested in activities and interests that aren't sex-oriented, booze-oriented, whatever-oriented that tend to attract the sleazebags of the world.
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