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Jul 14, 2007, 10:09 PM
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I hate my spouse. She's an unsupportive, totally selfish ******. She has never tried to understand anything that I go through. I've always been the one tip-toeing for her...trying to do my best all the time.
I'm not the only one too. Her mom, who used to be her bets friend, has continued to distance herself from her. She understands it too. It's apparent that she doesn't give a **** about anyone but herself...not even the kids. I wish ill will upon her! Most of the posts on here are probably about people who are hurt by their SO's that have some form of mental illness or disorder. Well, I'm the sick one, and I'm saying, she's the one that's f**ked in the head. **** her, she can burn in hell! Ahhhh....I feel better....somewhat. 
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Jul 14, 2007, 10:19 PM
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HI Pughead,
Will my situation isn't as severe as yours but I do understand your pain. My bf does not understand my illness and I have asked him to read things regarding it so he can understand better. But as far as I know to this date he has not researched it. It hurts me when I am having a problem and he responds with a gesture that seems to be condescending...he claims its not. I don't believe you can force anyone into anything they are not willing to understand or change. I don't know the answer but hopefully one day I can figure it out. Take care and I wish you peace...you sound very distressed.....(((((Pughead))))) Snow
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Jul 15, 2007, 05:53 AM
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ugh i'm sorry she's so awful! that really sucks. i hope that improves for you in any way possible.
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Jul 15, 2007, 09:16 AM
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Your anger hurts you much more than it hurts anyone else. I hope it doesn't hurt the children.
Please take care of yourself.
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Jul 15, 2007, 10:37 AM
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I am sorry you are going through this. It's very difficult to
live with someone that way. Although, I do not agree with you saying: I wish ill will upon her! I have been hurt so many times, that I use to say the same, but then I realized,that people always get paid back for wishing someone bad things to happen to them. I know its very hard not to express that, but I really believe,What goes around ,comes around. If not in this lifetime,maybe another. Wishing you the best, 
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Jul 15, 2007, 05:41 PM
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Pughead,
Im sorry things have got so bad. It sounds like you both need some help. Take care
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Jul 15, 2007, 07:56 PM
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Pughead,
Sorry you are feeling so anger - it mustn't feel very good. I hope you can find some peace - not just for your sake but your kids as well. Tranquility
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