[scar12346]

Some of you might've read about my emotionally abusive girlfriend. Well she turns out to be someone who doesn't care of people's emotions. So for instance yesterday where I had a flashback of ..2010,she just stood there and watched my break down in a full swimming full.. We were going to make love that day, until "I killed it" (her words)
So yeah.. she is indeed emotionally abusive. Because it will always be my fault.
Just wanted to update the people that read my last one.

[pegasus]

Didn't see your last thread but it sounds to me like this girlfriend is not the one for you. Grieve for the loss and then you can move on to a girlfriend that you deserve, one that supports you.

[Bill3]

The person who seems to relish hurting you was the one who ruined that day.

[Takeshi]

Hey, I'm just regifting someone's advice here to you.

From little what I know, I can't just judge your gf, some pair might just work fine with either one of them having an emotional off switch.

What I do know is that you do get those flashbacks, panic attacks and what not, these takes understandings and definitely should be a part of relationship rules.

Maybe is it time to make a relationship pros-cons list and evaluate the time from this present moment forward? I don't see your fault or ruining anything from the post itself, you didn't get some, **** happens.

Sex ain't a weapon, I hope you let her know that.

[divine1966]

You said you are in open relationship. Make sure you use protection as its sure way to get std

She sounds like bad news

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[ComfortablyNumb5]

Sorry I didn't read your post about her before but it seems like she's not there for you emotionally which would be a deal breaker for me. When my bf and I got together he really didn't know how to handle my MI but he's done research for me in looking for ways to be there for me. He takes me to all my appointments, pharmacies etc. whenever my illness is bothering me I can talk to him and he listens even though he may not know enough to respond. I still know he's listening and that's what matters.

Your GF said you killed the mood for having a breakdown? Jeez. Whenever I'm upset my bf is there for me and If anything, it makes us closer and more intimate.

Having my SO not want anything to do with my MI or being there for me would be a deal breaker.

And Devine mentioned you guys are in a open relationship? How's that work out? I wouldn't be able to share my partner personally but if that's your thing then so be it. Just be safe with your body,mind, and heart.

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[scar12346]

Originally Posted by RxQueen875

Sorry I didn't read your post about her before but it seems like she's not there for you emotionally which would be a deal breaker for me. When my bf and I got together he really didn't know how to handle my MI but he's done research for me in looking for ways to be there for me. He takes me to all my appointments, pharmacies etc. whenever my illness is bothering me I can talk to him and he listens even though he may not know enough to respond. I still know he's listening and that's what matters.

Your GF said you killed the mood for having a breakdown? Jeez. Whenever I'm upset my bf is there for me and If anything, it makes us closer and more intimate.

Having my SO not want anything to do with my MI or being there for me would be a deal breaker.

And Devine mentioned you guys are in a open relationship? How's that work out? I wouldn't be able to share my partner personally but if that's your thing then so be it. Just be safe with your body,mind, and heart.

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We closed up the relationship, that's not a problem anymore.
The problem is that she doesn't even believe that mental health is a thing.
I would say something about my psychosis and she would say: "It's all in your head"
I would say something that is true about us, like "you flirt and want to kiss everyone when you are drunk" and she would say "you are being paranoid, stop thinking about it"
She makes everything looks like its my fault, which has triggered a voice that continuously repeats "It's your fault"

[divine1966]

If she kisses others and flirts your relationship is still pretty open.

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