Relationship trouble

I've never been good at relationships. But I found myself in one that was going great minus the long distance, it's my first real relationship... But, I'm fairly sure she cheated on me. There's soo many red flags. She keeps bringing up this scenario of; "what if I did this, what would you do?"
Basically she keeps asking me, if she got really drunk and kissed another person (or any variation of that), what would I do? She is always out partying-which is fine. But one of her friends, even though he knows she's dating me, keeps trying to hook her up with other people.
I'm not sure what to do.. :/

Well, what do you want to do? What options have you considered and what do you think of them?

Long distance relationships are tough. Not sure what her questioning is alluding to. To bring it up casually to see if you're both on the same page is one thing but to harp on it is another. Perhaps ask her yourself the reasons for the questioning.

Hi,

Sorry you are struggling. What prevents you from going to be with her?

moogs

You might want to ask her if she is seeking an open relationship. It sounds like she may be hinting towards that...best way is to straight up ask her. Decide what is acceptable for you and evaluate where the relationship is going and how far it can go...being it is long distance.

Good luck.

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Don't trust her. She's already looking for wiggle room to reduce her level of commitment.

Part of why this may seem to be working out may be because you are at a distance from her and not able to know what she's really up to. Was this an online relationship in the beginning?

Don't trust her.

What makes this relationship so great? How does this one compare to the past relationships?

Unless your able to spend a decent amount of time face to face ... maybe you should rethink this whole LDR with someone that to me is asking odd questions..

How long have you known this person?

Thank you everyone, sorry I haven't been on here in a while.

Long story short we ended up, breaking up. It was the right thing to do. I'm working so much that I won't be able to go out to where she is/afford it, and for certain reasons she won't be able to make it out here either to visit.