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Old Aug 14, 2007, 01:53 PM
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Canders...I just read the entire thread. I'm so sorry you are feeling hurt and sad! I sense you are feeling that your feelings far exceed his, and that though he was nearby and didn't call you, it was disappointing and hurtful to you. Then seeing him again, you just "hung out," not talking much. I think this is just perpetuating your feelings of sorrow. Also, you've given him money since he's broke and then bought him lunch. I'm not judging you about this because I've done much the same, only bigtime! But, sweetie...you need to be with someone buying YOU lunch!, caring for you, calling you, and not taking you for granted. Time to clear your head and let this fella go!
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Old Aug 14, 2007, 02:06 PM
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Canders...I just read the entire thread. I'm so sorry you are feeling hurt and sad! I sense you are feeling that your feelings far exceed his, and that though he was nearby and didn't call you, it was disappointing and hurtful to you. Then seeing him again, you just "hung out," not talking much. I think this is just perpetuating your feelings of sorrow. Also, you've given him money since he's broke and then bought him lunch. I'm not judging you about this because I've done much the same, only bigtime! But, sweetie...you need to be with someone buying YOU lunch!, caring for you, calling you, and not taking you for granted. Time to clear your head and let this fella go!
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Boy doesn't have much money. I resigned myself to being a fantabulous friend. Might as well. I do love him, but if no other relationship will come of this - then it's easier to let him go in that regard and just say I love him for who he is and who he is to me - but not in that sort of relationship with him.

Also... you read the entire thread?! Wow. I don't know if I could read it all again... so much written stuff. Fantastic advice though.

Ah well. Just need to get over him again. It got easier ... now I just do it again.
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