[jester]

Hello everyone,
I've decided to write about my current relationships, lacking as they may be. However, I don't think I've ever really known what a relationship is or what it means to have one. I could be wrong though. I asked someone yesterday and I guess it's communication with someone else??

Can you have a relationship with your computer? or Hard Drive? I know that must sound dumb but at one time I imagined that parts of my brain worked like parts of a computer. Then a T. helped me to redefine the difference. Still, I gained a lot of insight and understanding of how computers worked when I did that.

I have to say that when reading the posts in Relationships and Communication I get pretty upset and sad for everyone. I think there can be a lot of pain (emotionally) and we don't wish that on anyone. I hope the folks who are struggling with their spouces and marriages are healed quickly and that their pain doesn't stay long.

Anyway I'm going to journalize descriptions of my current relationships, but don't think I know what I'm doing. I have been through devorces though and don't even want to go back that far in the past. Just in the here and now.
Any feedback is always very much appreciated if you have time. Thank you.
j

[curlyq]

Hi.A relationship is a union between people and the best ones are the ones we do our best to learn to understand each other and how to communicate effectively between one another. There are very good interpersonal communication books available. The subject was one of my favorites. You are exploring and open to learning new stuff and I'm the same way. I think that's very good. You also obviously are a caring person and that's important in a relationship. So, you've got much good going for you. Keep up the good work!

<font color=purple>Peace to you. CQ</font color=purple>

<font color=green>"I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all."
- Laura Ingalls Wilder
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