[black-roses]

it's funny how a man has never cared about me but then can pretend to care especially if there's sex or nudes on the line... I am pretty sure all men that ever told me they loved me were lying.

There is a song by matchbox 20 with a phrase "and I don't feel like I've ever been really loved, by a hand that's touched me"

When I get depressed I really feel this way strongly. But the truth is, I have been loved and I bet you have too. You deserve to feel REALLY loved and I hope you can find what you need to feel more fulfilled (((hugs)))

[black-roses]

<3 I will listen to it.

[divine1966]

Unless you know these men well I would take these declarations of love with a grain of salt. Try to be more selective. Who are these men?

[Krazee2]

Being used for sex and being played it the worst feeling. But you know that you have more to offer and deserve better. Most men that will deceive woman by acting like he cares and/or loves you has narcissist traits. It has nothing to do with you.

Best wishes

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by divine1966

Unless you know these men well I would take these declarations of love with a grain of salt. Try to be more selective. Who are these men?

38 year olds that wanted to pay me for sex and then verbally abuse me when I say no. Saying I am a duck slut and the only reason a guy wants me is because I am good at sex and yeah I am a fat slut with saggy tits. I never forgot that narrative of insults from a guy called Aaron notte who thought he could just sleep with me because I slept with his friend before I even know who he was.

[wildflowersinmytea]

Sorry that was said to you, that man is a pig. Here's the thing.. There are good men in the world but there are also a lot of men with horrible intentions. As a grown woman you have to protect yourself.. It's not bullet-proof but if you take your time, get to know them, hold off on sex, have boundaries in place, watch for red flags, and stop contact when anyone crosses your boundaries, I think you can weed out many rotten apples.

[Crazy Hitch]

Where on earth are you meeting these creepy perverts, like the said 38 year old man? These men are disturbing to say the least.

You have got to get off the internet sites. You keep landing yourself in some very shady circumstances. There is a fix for that. Stop frequenting those kinds of sites. Quit engaging in communication with people online that you do not know, particularly in any regards to sexual activity.

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by lolagrace

You have got to get off the internet sites. You keep landing yourself in some very shady circumstances. There is a fix for that. Stop frequenting those kinds of sites. Quit engaging in communication with people online that you do not know, particularly in any regards to sexual activity.

It was on Facebook and he's not the only one I've had 50 year olds I've had 34 year olds try it with me too. I know it's so bad and I must have very bad boundaries that I reply to them in the first place but I feel so neglected at home. That this is the only way I get attention even if it's negative attention.

[divine1966]

You don't know these men so please stop talking to them. It's unsafe

We've said it before. Lock down your security settings so complete strangers can't post on your FB. You do need to establish safe and healthy boundaries for yourself on social media or you will continue to be messed with by the sickos out there who are just prowling around looking for someone who they can mess with.

[Artchic528]

I could tell you real life stories of young girls, not much older than you, who meet their end doing what your doing, but I feel that scaring you is really more counterproductive than anything.

What you have to do is associate with people around your own age, and only people you trust completely are to be allowed access to your FB page. Do these things and you'll see a drastic decrease in the amount of bad men you allow into your life.

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by Artchic528

I could tell you real life stories of young girls, not much older than you, who meet their end doing what your doing, but I feel that scaring you is really more counterproductive than anything.

What you have to do is associate with people around your own age, and only people you trust completely are to be allowed access to your FB page. Do these things and you'll see a drastic decrease in the amount of bad men you allow into your life.

I know it's dangerous but I can't stop the toxic habit. I think I need to talk to a psychologist about it

Originally Posted by black-roses

I know it's dangerous but I can't stop the toxic habit. I think I need to talk to a psychologist about it

You should definately seek help if it's a compulsion you can't control. (((Hugs)))