i chose wrong girl, i blew it

I had a one night stand with a girl last weekend. I had been speaking to her on a dating site and we met uptown. I never realised I had actually been speaking to her friend too on same site. But I just feel used and was quite torn up for days. Now I know that I cannot do one night stands, I'm too emotional. Now she is moving abroad in a month and I wish I had had a chance with her friend, as I keep seeing her profile on the dating site and think we may have had a chance but I chose the one who half way through stripping naked told me she was moving away and she still wasn't over her wife leaving her. I doubt her friend will ever consider me an option now, and I feel as lonely as ever.
As if she would ever go out with me anyway as now college has ended I have no job. I have applied for a factory job and kitchen porter jobs. Plus my past is as murky as tar

You never know until you try, you are already expecting the worst...so why not give it a shot. Explain what you did and see what she says!

and let us know! good luck!

I agree. You have nothing to lose. If it doesn't work out at least you learned a valuable lesson about yourself....that you aren't good with one night stands.
Good luck!!!

What I really mean is I would like to have got the chance to know the other girl better, not that I had a choice because I am so dashing and charming lol no that was not the case. She seemed more down to earth, less crazy than girl I slept with. She says to me " i thought you didn't dance." Believe me I am keeping away from dance floors for a while AND internet dating. I got all insecure and needy after one night stand and messaged my date, saying could we keep in touch just as friends, I had a thing with closure and why we left it at one night. And she says if I ever fancied a one night again to get in touch. I didn't take her up on the offer.

Shes confident, and i think shes really pretty, smile is dreamy in pic on fb. Maybe when the dust settles she will accept my friend request.