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Dec 04, 2007, 01:09 PM
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I was sleeping early this morning when he held me for a few minutes before he got up to get ready for work. I imagined he was someone else, I was in a light sleep. I rubbed his arms and held him back...but it was some one else. I feel guilty about this. He told me he loved me and that's what woke me up and made me realize where I was and who I was with. This has to be unhealthy...my desperate longing for love and affection.
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Dec 04, 2007, 03:23 PM
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There's nothing wrong with responding to a dream! That's nice that he could hold you and you respond nicely (whether dream induced or not). I'm sure that will get you more love and affection :-) Love and affection are good things, wanting them, natural. I have my husband "pat my bottom" twice like a little kid when I go to bed each night, LOL. Can't get any more cozy/longing for affection than that.
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Dec 04, 2007, 06:00 PM
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as much as I hate to admit this...but I feel the same way.....not fair to either of us...
  snowy
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Dec 04, 2007, 06:21 PM
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better than me... when im sleeping and my boyfriend tries to hug me typically i push him off and grunt lol that makes him feel bad. i think id rather respond in a positive way than the way i normally respond. and its natural, like perna said, to want love and affection. you shouldnt feel bad for wanting that.
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