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Sep 01, 2017, 03:33 AM
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Even though I am pretty weird and mentally ill and poop, I managed to get myself a girlfriend.
I met her years ago and we always got along, when I came to see her we had a good time and we got together. We text each other quite a lot, usually we'd bounce off each other. But then I said something creepy, I said that sometimes when we kiss I licked my lips- at the time I thought she would be ok with it but I was wrong. One of the best things about her is that she is honest, she said that she was creeped out and she didn't reply much so I just said I'd talk to her later. I feel pretty bad to be honest, my girlfriend probably thinks I am a creep now and I thought she'd be ok with me because I thought she understood me. Now I am beginning to have doubts, if she continues to have issues with what I said I am going to break up with her... As a man, its VERY hard not to be seen creepy and sometimes I just act creepy because that's what women expect from us ya know. Anyway, what do you think of this little situation? (I hope you had a fun read)
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#2
Sep 01, 2017, 10:53 AM
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Hi! We're *all* a little mentally whack
 I don't know what your g/f thinks regarding your honesty, I'd never presume; but a thought occurred as I read your post. Maybe instead of licking your lips, I actually understand why one would do that, apply some strawberry Chapstick. I am not trying to be sarcastic or hateful! If you truly believe that you creeped her out and I think you do - Why not try that and talk to her. Sounds to me she's been with you awhile and so familiar with your quirks  I am glad you reached out, that's the only fun I got reading your post because I can hear your hurt and that's not funny Wisteria Rose |
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#3
Sep 01, 2017, 11:23 AM
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Why do you wana act creepy on purpose? and the issue is small i believe, she should get over it... and if she doesnt and you're okay with breaking up with her if she continues to act odd then it's fine, since you're able to move on easily
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Sep 01, 2017, 05:33 PM
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I don't think that's creepy. But then we never know what creeps out another person. I wouldn't read to much into it. Hopefully she'll get over it.
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Sep 01, 2017, 07:17 PM
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I don't understand how that's creepy. But like shazerac said, everyone's different. Hopefully she will get over it soon.
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Sep 01, 2017, 07:24 PM
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I wouldn't say women expect us to be creepy because we're men. I think they're happy to find someone who isn't creepy! I'm very shy in public, and don't say much, I'm afraid to say hello to people I don't know well etc... And I think people sometimes think I'm creepy because I'm so quiet. But I found out, once people get to know me a little, they never thought I was creepy at all. What you did doesn't sound creepy, it'll probably blow over. But don't try to be creepy on purpose because you think that's what people expect. Be yourself! It works.
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Sep 01, 2017, 07:37 PM
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Sep 02, 2017, 12:19 PM
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I have no idea why you or your gf thought this was weird or creepy. In my experience, tongues are a common part of kissing.
It is slightly odd that you mentioned it though, but stranger that she is bothered. Although perhaps it's something she didn't like and didn't know what to say. I'll be honest I prefer dry lips on a kids, regardless of wether I am French kissing or not, I don't like coming away with wet lips and feeling I have to wipe my mouth. I am confused as to why you think all guys have to be a bit creepy. If you could elaborate as to what behaviours guys have that constitute 'creepy' that would help a lot. All the best.
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Sep 02, 2017, 12:44 PM
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I don't understand why it's a big deal either. I hope she gets over it soon. I'm sorry you had this experience. Sending big hugs.
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