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Old Oct 03, 2017, 06:44 PM
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I didn’t know telling your best friend how you feel about the way she has been treating you would leave you friendless. Crying your eyes out for an hour and eating lunch alone. Overcome by your depressed thoughts as you realize she blocked you on Facebook. Utterly alone because she was all you had. I have homework to do.
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 08:58 PM
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I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Actually brought some tears to my eyes reading it. If you brought to her awareness that you felt she hadn't been treating you as a true friend should and this was her reaction, maybe you're better off overall without her as a friend. Maybe this door needed to close so you could look elsewhere and walk through a door behind which something more fulfilling awaits you. Forgive me if I am jumping to unfair conclusions. I know it feels awful right now, but you will see better days and opportunities to develop new, healthy friendships. You have life. You have potential. You have support available to you through this site. This is not the end of the world. Hope you feel better soon.

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Old Oct 03, 2017, 09:10 PM
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so sorry this happened
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 09:24 PM
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I didn’t know telling your best friend how you feel about the way she has been treating you would leave you friendless. Crying your eyes out for an hour and eating lunch alone. Overcome by your depressed thoughts as you realize she blocked you on Facebook. Utterly alone because she was all you had. I have homework to do.
Hi ,

We are not perfect , but what hell is perfect anyway ? I am sure I can speak for all when I say , you are not friendless anymore , welcome home.



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Old Oct 04, 2017, 02:55 AM
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Sorry you lost a friend, but I hope a real friend comes for you soon.
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 05:31 AM
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People who can't handle the truth about themselves aren't worth your time anyway. You'll always have time to make new friends.
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 08:14 AM
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sorry to hear that this has happened to you! it will take time to heal from such abandonment but it is good to clear out your life from people who are not treating you with respect and love you deserve! <3 sending support your way ~
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Old Oct 05, 2017, 04:43 PM
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Update: The last few days have been hard. I was scolded by the guidance counselor for “hurting” former best friends feelings. Im fighting the normal ups and downs during the day in which I start choking on these unprovoked tears. Today I had a moment of joy while in school: my creative writing teacher has given himself the task of helping me find happiness and today he cracked through this brittle shell. He let me borrow his typewriter. This action had an affect on me that is almost indescribable. I laughed and almost cried. Also a girl sat by me at lunch today! My sister never showed up anyway but I made this girl feel better... When I knew her a few years ago she wasn’t very nice but shes all Ive got. I said hi to 5 people today trying to stimulate a friendly environment. Im really trying guys and I really want to be happy but im so overwhelmed.
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Old Oct 05, 2017, 04:48 PM
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Good for you for reaching out!!! Keep up the good work and you'll find a friend or friends who are worth your time and attention. Sending big hugs.
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