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Old Dec 05, 2017, 05:05 PM
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Hello I'm a mom of 3 children my oldest born with rare brain defect total care bed bound, in adult diapers, pls listen to me, if u do great if u don't good luck sorry to be so blunt but hey it is what it is, I married this guy everything was normal b4 marriage, great happy lives, well that didn't last long, he's delusional, hallucinations, u name he's got it, SMH well he started to wear diapers, bottles, tried to climb on top of me asleep on meds from Dr, and my son sleeping at the end of the bed awake I just happen to wake up ave so that ****, trust me pls wonen do not put ur lives, children's lives, friends family at risk in harm's way over someone that does NOT have the knowledge or capable of changing, they are all dangerous if u know one meet one turn around run and hide
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Old Dec 10, 2017, 07:22 PM
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Hello SMT: I see this is your first post here on PC. Welcome to PsychCentral. I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.
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Old Dec 10, 2017, 07:35 PM
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I'm sorry you've had a bad experience but do realize that a large percentage of this group are schizophrenic and most members on this site are in some form mentally ill, and from the experiences I've had here we are very good people who struggle to manage our disorders. I understand this is a vent and your first post, but do please be kind in your choice of words as saying "all our dangerous" is extremely insulting in a mental health community.
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Old Dec 10, 2017, 07:41 PM
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Has he been diagnosed as schizophrenic? And did you wake up to him climbing on your son or you? It's hard to understand your post with no punctuation.

Is he on meds? Are you his wife or his girlfriend? Your title says girlfriend but your post says he's your husband? If you're his wife, can you have him committed to the hospital to get some help?

I reiterate what LiteraryLark said. Everyone on this site has a mental illness of some kind, and many are living with schizophrenia. They are not all dangerous. In fact, statistics show that people suffering from mental illness are more likely to be victims than abusers.

Welcome to PC.

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Old Dec 11, 2017, 03:52 PM
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I understand the confusion of the situation. For that you may also want to consult a therapist to help you understand and manage the symptoms of a person diagnosed with schizophrenia.
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Old Dec 11, 2017, 09:17 PM
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1. you assume all suffering from Sz are men.
2. He needs to be hospitalized if he can't control his behavior.
3. We're not "all dangerous" At times I can be harmful but mainly to myself.
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Old Dec 13, 2017, 09:04 AM
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This guy does sound dangerous with his climbing up on people at night. If he refuses treatment perhaps you do need to separate for your kids sake. It doesn’t mean everyone is dangerous though. No need to generalize.
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Old Dec 13, 2017, 10:48 AM
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Hi, welcome to PC and yes please be careful with your choice of words on here. You could easily offend people by making generalizations. Not all are dangerous. I hear voices myself and am on medication for them. I am not diagnosed as schizophrenic and I do not have any other symptoms that indicate I am, but I hear voices and am probably somewhere in the neighborhood. I am not dangerous.

This man does sound a bit out of control, though. You may need some outside help.
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Old Dec 13, 2017, 01:57 PM
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I agree with advice given....

Is he in treatment and on meds? are you seeing a Therapist? I would advise you to as your situation with your son sounds very hard on you..

People with mental illness are not all dangerous... Most of us here including myself find that triggering and just plain rude..

Please reach out for help about it all
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