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Old Apr 20, 2018, 04:14 PM
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One of the many things I don't like about myself is that the words "Forgive" and "Forget" are not in my vocabulary. If someone does me wrong or hurts me and don't explain themselves or apologize when I give them the chance, they're gone. They're out of my life. I very rarely give second chances, mostly because I rarely get second chances.

Shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice.
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Old Apr 20, 2018, 06:23 PM
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Old Apr 20, 2018, 09:05 PM
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You said that you don’t like that about yourself. What if you tried to change it?
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Old Apr 21, 2018, 05:08 AM
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Hi. With all due respect, if you don't mind me saying so, I don't think that's something to dislike about yourself. I've become the same way over the years and I'm okay with it. Perhaps it's something you can learn to accept about yourself because in a lot of ways, to me, it's a healthy self respecting way to be. Good on you, you have my full support. People think they can ride roughshod over others but they can't - not over everybody.
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Old Apr 21, 2018, 07:58 AM
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I’m sort of forgive but not forget kind of person. I know we all have bad days. However,
If some one betrays my confidence or puts me down......I keep that in mind when I’m considering whether or not to keep that person on my mental friends list.
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Old Apr 21, 2018, 08:48 AM
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I can forgive easy but i can't forget.
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Old Apr 21, 2018, 05:03 PM
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Not good at either one. No regrets.
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