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Nov 09, 2007, 02:15 PM
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We had our first couple's session today with our pastor (the man who married us). It went pretty well I was a little more emotional than I would liked to have been, but such is life. We talked about what we wanted and she still feels like she is not sure. I poured out my soul about my illness and the fact that I know that I had neglected her for so long. She says that she feels like I am not in love with her. I told her it was not that I was not in love with her, because when you love someone you are in love, I told her that it was not that I was not in love with her, but that I was sick. Before I had myself hospitalized, I did not realize what I was feeling and I thought that I could handle in on my own (stupid man) and everytime she told me I needed help I just kind of (well actually did not) listen to her. I wish now that I had because since I realize what has happened to me I am so much better. We are trying to climb that wall, the wall that seperates us now. Thanks
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Nov 09, 2007, 06:27 PM
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dragon,
i am so happy that the therapy went well. i am sure this is a new start for the both of u. best of luck. -ag |
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Nov 10, 2007, 02:18 AM
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That sounds like it was very painful but worth it.
Good luck. Cyran0
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My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Nov 10, 2007, 11:17 PM
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No actually it was not painful, a little eye opening but not painful, I have a very loving wife and she understands what I am going through. She needs her time to heal the pain she has had. She really is great.
Dragon
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Nov 10, 2007, 11:59 PM
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Then that is truly wonderful. Please let us know how things go as you progress.
Best wishes, Cyran0
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My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Nov 11, 2007, 02:54 AM
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Dragon,
I wish you the very best of luck and healing for both you and your wife. I commend you both for fighting for your marriage, so many people give up too easily.
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Nov 11, 2007, 09:50 AM
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(((((((((((((((( dragon & wife )))))))))))))))))))))
You are both in my prayers.......what a wonderful job of communication on both your parts! hugsss sabby |
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