Fending off other women

Venting:

Last night I was with a cozy group of my friends, along with my fiancee. This girl totally infiltrated our group and began hitting on and flirting with every taken man in the group, including my fiancee.

I am both appalled by her behavior and perturbed to no end. I don't feel threatened, but it was very disrespectful to the women in the group, which is what irks me the most. My girlfriend looked just as perturbed as I was, while the girl flirted with her own fiancee.

What the hell is that about? Insecurity? Needing her ego fed? Needing attention from taken men? Is she the type who would try to steal away your man and have an affair with them? This is what I think of her & the thoughts that run through my mind. I hope we don't see her or run into her again. I hate this crap SO much.

This behaviour is enough to put me into "warrior woman" mode. I have never and would never, even with alcohol, do this to another female's man. There is no excuse. It is complete and total disrespect. May I ask why your husband doesn't say, "Excuse me, my wife is right here, have some respect for her as well as yourself." I have said this to a couple of men who were gauche enough to have flirted with me in front of my husband.

Agreed!! Same here. I think he didn't say anything because I was right there and it was probably awkward. I am sure he would say something otherwise. He said something to a guy once who had hit on me blatantly. He told him off. lol.