Am I being unreasonable with hubby?

thanks as I usually research previous posts th gleen any more details but hadn't done that this time. Definitely sounds like OP is quite capable & is nit the kind if person to one only to rely on the H. He is just being a total jerk & should NOT be tolerated or excused away.

I am the kind of person who totally relied on the husband. He’d let me flap my lips, agreeing with me that we had a 50/50 partnership. But he did everything he wanted to anyway, regardless of my protest. He might have gotten physical if I had really given him too much resistance about what he wanted to do. He had me believing he was honest with me, then I learned he was dishonest behind my back, regardless of anything I asked of him, pleaded with him. So I backed off and let him be spoiled. With him, it was over getting a two-seater sports car. With the OP’s immature hubby, it’s over most likely doing drugs, alcohol, and probably getting laid with prostitutes on a guy’s Hangover trip. I’m so bummed about the reality of marriage now. I do hope there are honest folks out there.

Thank you for all your replies.

We are going to put some time aside and speak about this properly tonight and I will suggest couples Counselling as a way forward.

Thank you so much everyone, I have taken all your comments on board and I have a lot to think about.