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Nov 23, 2007, 07:06 PM
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Is it possible to be IN LOVE with 2 differant people. I mean can a person be in love with 2 people at the same time, and love both of them more than any thing in the world.
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Nov 24, 2007, 09:22 AM
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I believe it is possible.
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Nov 24, 2007, 10:13 AM
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Yes....and it racks on the stress and guilt, eventually becomes overwhelming with all the juggling. Ultimately it always comes down to making a decision. You'd better begin considering it.
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Nov 24, 2007, 10:55 AM
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I think it is possible to be infatuated, the chemical precursor to love, with a couple people at the same time but getting to where you know a person well enough to love them takes time and effort and no one can be two places at once that way. Were it possible, I wouldn't find it desirable as the two people are going to jealous of one another, etc.
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Nov 24, 2007, 02:20 PM
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Wise words Perna. Dr. Clayton E. Tucker-Ladd of psychcentral.com has a whole chapter here about love.
http://www.psychologicalselfhelp.org/Chapter10/ |
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Nov 24, 2007, 05:23 PM
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Short answer, Yes.
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Nov 24, 2007, 05:41 PM
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it is very possible
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Nov 25, 2007, 04:22 PM
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I think it is possible to love 2 people, maybe just not completely love. I think deep meaning full love is the willingness to sacrifice everything for the good of the one you love, what you do for one love could eventually hurt the other love.
Linda
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Nov 25, 2007, 07:14 PM
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I'm in agreement w/ everyone else that has replied. It is very possible to be in love w/ more than one person. Just make sure that it's not lust. The worst thing you can do is not tell the people that you're in love w/ cause then it'll be a charade. Maybe you should arrange a love triangle meeting between the three of you and just tell them both. I know that sounds like a stupid suggestion but at least you'll get alot off your conscience. And whatever happens, well then maybe you'll change your love for one or the other or both based on their reaction.
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Nov 26, 2007, 08:27 PM
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I would have to agree that you can be in love with two people ie. I love my wife and I love my mother. That being said I think that romantically loving two people is not only hard to do, it is almost impossible. I have given my love to my wife and no other woman would ever be able to take that away from me. I have always loved my wife and anytime I was in a relationship before we got married she always was there in my heart (romantically) and I was never able to romantically love the person I was with. I could not give them all of my heart because of the romantic love I felt for my wife. I hope that all makes sense. Simply put you can love two people but only one romantically (my thoughts are not those of others on PC so please do not write to my editor.)
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