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Old Nov 04, 2018, 07:02 AM
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I don't know what ages you both are.....but BOTH behaviors are very immature. Sounds like some gpod therapy with a lot of work on interpsrsonal relations would benefit BOTH of you.
I completely agree with you!
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Old Nov 04, 2018, 08:00 AM
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The OP hasn’t been back to this thread. I hope she’s ok.
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Old Nov 04, 2018, 08:59 AM
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Your words.
Don't take my words out of context!!!!..I was asking why you asked that question. Hitting IS NEVER RIGHT unless in self defense
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I too hope the OP is ok.......
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Old Nov 06, 2018, 01:22 AM
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I hope the OP does come back.

OP, while your girlfriend's hurt and angry feelings were justified, hitting you was not. Both of you did wrong. There are giant red flags in this relationship. If you decide to continue it, please get couples counseling. If you decide to end the relationship instead, please get individual counseling before beginning another one.
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Old Nov 08, 2018, 08:16 PM
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I would think only Therapy would help this situation , a couples Therapist and then you both each need a therapist.

Neither of you understand what a health relationship actually is.

I hope your able to work this out.
That sounds like a great plan!
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Old Nov 10, 2018, 04:09 AM
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Were you hurt?
That's nice you are concerned enough to wonder how she was physically.
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 01:21 PM
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So what difference does it make if she was hurt or not ? The BEHAVIOR of someone hitting someone is WRONG whether they were hurt or not.
I completely agree with you about the behavior. It wrong to hit someone.
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 01:23 PM
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Don't take my words out of context!!!!..I was asking why you asked that question. Hitting IS NEVER RIGHT unless in self defense
I completely agree with you about the question that you had ask and the comments that you made about hitting someone.
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 08:04 PM
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I too would strongly suggest couples counseling. If she's not willing to participate I'd think twice regarding your relationship with her.
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Old Nov 11, 2018, 08:06 PM
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Folks, the OP has not been back to this thread in quite a long time.
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Old Nov 20, 2018, 07:38 PM
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I too would strongly suggest couples counseling. If she's not willing to participate I'd think twice regarding your relationship with her.
I would go ahead and dump her. It sound like.you weren't really into her if you cheat on her and she became abusive because of what had happened.
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Old Dec 28, 2018, 11:35 PM
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I too would strongly suggest couples counseling. If she's not willing to participate I'd think twice regarding your relationship with her.
I think it just best that you leave.
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 10:44 AM
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I think this was her 1st post the end of october & she hasn't been back since. Maybe an exercise in futility responding to this?
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I think this was her 1st post the end of october & she hasn't been back since. Maybe an exercise in futility responding to this?
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