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Old Jul 10, 2019, 11:07 PM
Anonymous43089
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Maybe you could avoid indefinitely, but to me, in order to set a boundary, one needs to say it out loud.
I agree. It needs to be made known.

If (when) she crosses that boundary, I'll just walk away. Or that's the plan, at least.

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Okay, if that's the case, you may want to set boundaries with her in writing rather than in person or over the phone.
That's a good idea. Also, if I put it in writing, then I've got a documentation of what I actually said. She has a habit of twisting words; e.g. insisting that some plan she was trying to convince me of was actually my idea. Not that I've ever fallen for her ham-handed attempts at manipulation, but she still attempted to manipulate me, which is rude.
Thanks for this!
Bill3

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Old Jul 11, 2019, 05:35 PM
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Also, if I put it in writing, then I've got a documentation of what I actually said. She has a habit of twisting words; e.g. insisting that some plan she was trying to convince me of was actually my idea.
Smart-thinking!
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