[princesscookie19]

Okay so... Im 16yr old and I live in care,I have a boyfriend who is over 40 and likes me,he acts like hes a teenager and when I go out for lunch with him he always asks for cigarettes and a few times he asked could I have a few of my chips-I said No and then he sighed and said fine. We held hands and then he stopped and asked me did I play final fantasy ..he always buys a new game everytime i meet up with him. He gives me gifts and I always buy him DVDs and stuff he might like. I want to just be friends but I dont know how to say it -in a nice way

[~Christina]

What redeeming qualities does he have outside of buying you gifts???

What shared interests do you have ??

why are you dating someone over 40? if you sleep together you do realize it is statutory rape on his part? tell him to get lost and find someone his own age. he doesn't need to date 16 yr olds. and you shouldn't be going there either...find someone closer to your age with whom you have actually something in common. how did you even meet this guy?? i'm not sure what "in care" is but if it's something like a care facility you still need to be more careful.

my gut tells me he's looking for more then just fries.

be careful and do something to keep yourself safe. you deserve better.

[sarahsweets]

This is not ok.....

[princesscookie19]

He just likes playing games on his pS4 he is really old-er than me.. even if I break up the GF/BF he still is a friend and how do I tell him nice-ly that I dont want to be his GF..even as a friend he still wants to be with me?help

Originally Posted by princesscookie19

He just likes playing games on his pS4 he is really old-er than me.. even if I break up the GF/BF he still is a friend and how do I tell him nice-ly that I dont want to be his GF..even as a friend he still wants to be with me?help

princesscookie: I'm breaking up with you.

chester: Can we still be friends?

princesscookie: No.

And then sever all contact, wash your hands, and be done with him.

he probably should find other people closer to his age to play games with. he has already had sketchy boundaries once (that you are aware of) so what is to stop him from stretching them again? and YOU need to find friends closer to YOUR ages as well.

[MickeyCheeky]

COMPLETELY agree with ALL the other Wise, Wonderful posters, @princesscookie19! You deserve MUCH, MUCH better than him, and most importantly someone closer to you age! Do your parents even know about him? I don't think this is ok. Please break up. It doesn't matter if he still wants to be friends with you - he should know better. RUN!! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, princesscookie19. Please get away from him as you can. Keep fighting and keep rocking like you're already wonderfully doing entirely on your own! Feel free to PM me anytime. Whathever you do, please do NOT go near him or any other 40-year old!

[princesscookie19]

Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

COMPLETELY agree with ALL the other Wise, Wonderful posters, @princesscookie19! You deserve MUCH, MUCH better than him, and most importantly someone closer to you age! Do your parents even know about him? I don't think this is ok. Please break up. It doesn't matter if he still wants to be friends with you - he should know better. RUN!! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, princesscookie19. Please get away from him as you can. Keep fighting and keep rocking like you're already wonderfully doing entirely on your own! Feel free to PM me anytime. Whathever you do, please do NOT go near him or any other 40-year old!

Thank you soo much..He is a nice guy but I have to let go ..he steals my cigarettes ,tastes my lunch...Talks about games all the time and once I seen his zipper was down.. its kind-of-funny to be honest XD

yea, no it's not. really.

get away from him. let someone know about the zipper thing. please. you are what 16 he is 40 and this will lead no where good. please. let someone know..aren't you in a care house or something? let someone know about this guy.