I like someone at a local store. i want to ask her out. But she does not even acknowledge me or look at me. when i meet her on the floor she totally ignores me.

She used to say hello before i do not know why she stopped. Since she is so dismissive i cannot ask her. i am well known there the rest of the staff say hello

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by LonelyMan

I like someone at a local store. i want to ask her out. But she does not even acknowledge me or look at me. when i meet her on the floor she totally ignores me.

She used to say hello before i do not know why she stopped. Since she is so dismissive i cannot ask her. i am well known there the rest of the staff say hello

Is it possible that she may feel uncomfortable for her own reason?

Is it possible that she may feel uncomfortable for her own reason?

i suppose but i have no way to know what it is. all the rest men and women say hello. when i meet her she walks by looks away or down avoiding eye contact or acknowledging


she is not stupid she knows i am there

[eskielover]

Originally Posted by LonelyMan

I like someone at a local store. i want to ask her out. But she does not even acknowledge me or look at me. when i meet her on the floor she totally ignores me.

She used to say hello before i do not know why she stopped. Since she is so dismissive i cannot ask her. i am well known there the rest of the staff say hello

Maybe she sensed your interest in her & doesn't have an interest in you. Maybe she finds it easier to ignore you than to say "no" if you did ask her out.

As a female myself I would definitely take her lack of an acknowledgment as a "not interested".

It is normal to be friendly at first if one senses nothing more than being friendly. When one senses an interest that is not felt in return, it can be normal to ignore the person from that point, sensing that anything else may be taken as encouragement.

If she were interested in going out with you, she would NOT be ignoring you.

Originally Posted by LonelyMan

I like someone at a local store. i want to ask her out. But she does not even acknowledge me or look at me. when i meet her on the floor she totally ignores me.

She used to say hello before i do not know why she stopped. Since she is so dismissive i cannot ask her. i am well known there the rest of the staff say hello

It's probably that she's aware of your affections, but she's either too anxious or too socially awkward to confront you. You being a customer complicates the issue because you've got her in a tight spot, having to navigate the intricacies of romantic overtures while also maintaining a sense of professionalism, and all this under the watch of her employer and colleagues. It isn't a fun spot to be in.

Maybe she has her own reasons for not wanting to get involved with you. Maybe she doesn't. Either way, I'd just take the hint and move on.