I've been talking to my sisters husband...

and he tells me my little sister is still using PCP and continues to have affairs with other people. She's also thought she was pregnant for awhile and again wasn't sure who the father is. It's a mess over there and he is on the verge of kicking her out on her ***.

I can't blame him either because if it were me her *** would have been out long ago from the first affair she had. I mean her husband is a military man and has given her everything...the world...I mean she is spoiled rotten. Not to mention he has taken her son and treated him as his own son. He practically took a young girl and her infant into his busy military life and this is how she repays him. I told her in a drunken rage of mine that if I was here I would cherish and appreciate what was given to me....because I work my *** for everything I have, nothing has been given to me.

Right now I feel the verge to drive down there and out her over my knee. But she's a grown woman and there's nothing I can no longer say or do. I'm out of control in this situation and since she's my baby sister it really bothers me. My little 2 year old nephew is involved too.

See, my Mom arranged for my sister and her husband to marry because when my sister was still at home with us she almost lost custody of her son. She kept ditching her son to go party and the biological aunt (bio fathers sister) practically kidnapped him and was going to keep him till she went to court. Luckily we got him back and before anything could happen my sister was married off with a military man and untouchable.

It has back fired.

There's apart of me that wants my nephew. My sis's husband is being shipped off to Afghanistan and will be gone for a year. I fear for my nephews safety. Almost obsessively worried for him.

I had a DREAM that I was driving down the highway towards Charleston and on the side of the road in the middle of the night was a young child balled up on the ground. I of course pulled over immediately and swooped the child in my arms. The child was hurt and soiled. It was dark so I couldn't identify the child..if it was boy girl...white black..nothing. I decided since the child was so dirty and soiled I would take him home and clean him up before calling the police. When I walked in the house and uncovered him from all his clothes I discovered it was my nephew. Ever since this dream I've been worried worried worried.

Any suggestions as to what I should do? I mean I am on the outside of this problem with no control...but should I just sit aside and let things happen on their own? This is ******** what my sister is doing. I'm tempted to whoop her spoiled ***.

sorry soooooo long.

hon I think as long as her husband is home not alot you can do if he won't tell cps about the drug use. maybe talk to him again and see if he will do this and you be prepared if you can to take custody. the child needs someone loving and safe to be there for him. keep us posted.