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Jan 22, 2008, 01:03 PM
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i think i might be having a problem with this. idk. i think some people who i need to keep my boundaries with, i forget to. i was reading the bit on unhealthy boundaries post, which i didnt understand but i read the link, and alot of them applied to me :S eep. i know that probably means nothing. but i have noticed, how close im getting with some people. perhaps too close to be sensible. but, idk. im just real confused. when does a best friend stop becoming a best friend. erp if anyone reads this and thinks they now who or what im on about please dont be angry... im just so worried about causing trouble lately. i feel like such a bad person. bah
tc dudes dot
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Jan 22, 2008, 02:48 PM
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Hey Dot,
I really don't understand what you're asking or what the problem is, but I KNOW you're not a bad person.
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Jan 22, 2008, 02:50 PM
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Everyone is responsible for their own boundaries so if you're worrying you are hurting someone, you can ask how they feel and try to pay better attention to how they react to things you say and do that you suspect are crossing their boundaries.
Otherwise, if you are annoyed or hurt by what other people say or do, stop and look at it instead of letting it pass and discuss it with the person if it seems to happen in a similar way more than once. Stick up for yourself, "Hey, that hurts when you call me names!" and if someone else says they are hurt by you, take them seriously and practice being aware of situations that appear to hurt them.
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Jan 23, 2008, 10:57 AM
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I am not quite sure what you are saying...can you please add some more details.
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Jan 25, 2008, 02:20 AM
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Ya Know Selfy, I dont know who or what relationship you are referring to. But I do know this, if it does not feel right, it probably is not. If you feel you are doing something you should not, then you are probably right. If you are in a friendship and being pushed for more dont let it happen. Like I said before I dont know which relationship or who the relationship or relationships are with, but if you are ever unsure, or you feel something is not right or good for you, CHANCES ARE you are right!
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Jan 26, 2008, 01:38 AM
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This song reminds me of a best friend. A best friend loves you for who you are in every way. If someone puts you down they stand up for you. If you share opinions and disagree you accept your differences and still love each. If you hurt each other's feelings, you can apologize and move on with confidence that if something goes wrong you two can still and always rely on each other. Sadly, best friends can come and go. Thoughts and feelings can change. People grow and sometimes grow apart. It's much like a marriage. Much like the love "When a man loves a woman" -OCEAN :
WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN LYRICS: When a man loves a woman Cant keep his mind on nothin else Hed trade the world For a good thing hes found If she is bad, he cant see it She can do no wrong Turn his back on his best friend If he puts her down When a man loves a woman Spend his very last dime Trying to hold on to what he needs Hed give up all his comforts And sleep out in the rain If she said thats the way It ought to be When a man loves a woman I give you everything I got (yeah) Trying to hold on To your precious love Baby please dont treat me bad When a man loves a woman Deep down in his soul She can bring him such misery If she is playing him for a fool Hes the last one to know Loving eyes can never see Yes when a man loves a woman I know exactly how he feels cause baby, baby, baby I am a man When a man loves a woman </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> selfy said: i think i might be having a problem with this. idk. i think some people who i need to keep my boundaries with, i forget to. i was reading the bit on unhealthy boundaries post, which i didnt understand but i read the link, and alot of them applied to me :S eep. i know that probably means nothing. but i have noticed, how close im getting with some people. perhaps too close to be sensible. but, idk. im just real confused. when does a best friend stop becoming a best friend. erp if anyone reads this and thinks they now who or what im on about please dont be angry... im just so worried about causing trouble lately. i feel like such a bad person. bah tc dudes dot </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">
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