Why would my people pleasing friend not ditch this lying fake moocher?

I’m very upset now since this woman that my good friend introduced me to a few months ago turned out to be a lying manipulative jealous selfish user.

We both felt bad for her at first since she has also been bullied her whole life by coworkers, peers at school, her familt, former fellow, and ex boyfriends. And customers too.

We were also bullied a lot growing up. And we all have issues with depression, anxiety, self esteem & eating disorders.

Anyways, my friend recently told me that a few weeks ago when thet went out, the mooch said she didn’t have any money for lunch.

My friend has always paid for all her meals, coffee, and movie tuckets before, but not that time. She finally said no.

So the mooch came back with a hige tray of food. She didn’t ask her hiw she paid for or with ‘no money’.

She claims to have no credit card as she said bipolar with schizoaffective disorder & she has trouble with spending to much money.

Also, she has no job & lives at home rent free. She’s on SSI. Not judging, just saying that her parents take cate of her & give her money.

I saw it with my own eyes. Her mom drives her everywhere as she doesn’t drive. She said she’s afraid to since she got into an accident 3 years ago.

She claimed to have worked for Safeway for 13 years & despite being severely bullied by everyone including customers constantly, she couldn’t quit or her das would’ve kicked her out id the house. Weird.

She has never once paid for anything as long as my friend was present. I personally never ever paid for her stuff aside from agreeing to shate food with her bevore & that’s it.

She’s extremely heap as she lied ti mt fave too about not having enough money for both popcorn & a hot dog after she had $30 left after payung for hwr oen ticket.

I know she wanted me to offer to get the popcorn to shate which I stupidly did a second time. The first time she ate almost everything w/o offering me anything, rude!

I snapped after she didn’t bother asking me anything about a trip to Spain. All she did was whi w a out bee problagain for the millionth time. She told me gow she never will get to go anywhere.

I asked her if she’s jealous of me & she said no defensively. Before that she looked cold & blank. I told her that she never asks how we’re doing & hiw inappropiate it is to except other people to pay for her stuff.

I told her what my friend told me about lunch & being lied to. I also brought uo the movue inccident & she played dumb & said sorry & she didn’t know she was being offensive & inappropriate.

I also told her that she focuses to much on herself & that she is constantly repeating the same stories. She said sorry & she didn’t realize she was doing that.

I call b.s. She is 38 but she acts like a dumb, really dumb child, but I doubt she’s that stupid. I think it’s an act

A yways, my friend & I complained about her & I sent ber moo h hokes thet she laughed at. The mooch’s birthday is coming up & I asked my friend if she’ll still take her out or even talk to her still.

She ignored my question & is still avoiding it saying that she has severe mental heslth issues & she doesn’t wanr to ralk about her niw as she’s busy

It seems as if she has forgiven this woman for lying to her & using her because she feels sorry foe her & because she is a people pleaser too.

I don’t understand this as why would anyone want to still be friends with a lying manipulative moocher?

This weirdo lady remained mostly sulent when I talked & didn’t seem to care abour anything that I said aside from me telling her that I think she’s jealous of me. She sure became emotional & defensive then, lol! Weird!

Whys that? Are people with bipolar & schizoaffective disorder usually unemotional & bkank? She twowated the same annoying stories to whete everyone she ever met almost mistreated her in some way.

I call b.s now. Clearly she has no shame & no problem using people as she used an ex who ahe thought was gat & ugly for company as no one else wanted to hang our with her.

Now I know why, lol. She’s a big whiny boring selfish user. She’s more mentally unstable than I thought at first as she thinks she can sue people foelr anything & cakls everyone who complains about anything or telks her anything she doesn’t like a Karen, lol.

She claimed that she appreciated my honesty & that she wasn’t mad, but that she a other lie as she ignored two texts that weren’t about what I said to her for two days alrwady. She always replied to texts eight away before.

Why woukd she use nice people like us & hirt is woth very obvious lies? And why would my supposedly intelligent friend want to avoid even mentioning ber after telling me how upset she was with her lying & mooching? It makes zero sense to me.

Should I not mention this ladt to her again unless she brings her up? Whatsoever goinfg on here? I warned her & told her she’s a user & a liar & to ditch her too.

I have a bad feeling that she’s going to give her another chance. Why? They we r to group therapy together once, so the mooch knows her weak spots unfortunately. Ugh.