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I'm done with it
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Self-care is the number one thing especially when caring for others.
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Here, Here Fuzzy....
Self care is most important. Just wanted you to know that I appreciate your presence on PC. ![]()
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(((((((my fuzzy friend))))) breathe ok? you are much appreciated for you
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"The mind is like a parachute. It doesn’t work unless it’s open." ![]() Don’t look where you fall, but where you slipped. ![]() |
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I wuv you here, there and everywhere....
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little fuzzy dude, sometimes we need to do this and it comes down to exactly that. I'm mostly of that mind too. I mean, I am nice and respectful, but I am not going to change who I am just because someone doesn't like some aspect of that(unless i see they have a valid point, like people did when I was addicted to drugs - in that case I made the change to better myself) But when it comes down to little things, case in point, my peircings.. my family hates them, my doctor hates them, my social worker says they make me look less responsible.. I just let it roll off my back. They might not like it but my peircings make me feel beautiful. So the hoodelly Heck with them I say!
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(((((((((((( fuzzybear ))))))))))))
Sending you some hugs ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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((Fuzzy))
Good for you! Jme, but ya please one and someone else gets upset 'cause we didn't do it their way... Cap
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I'm with ya fuzzy!! You can't please everyone....just do what internally feels "right" to YOU.
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I wish I was done with it Fuzzy. Its like built in to my psyche. I'd rather everyone else be content and happy than me!!!
Dee
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i agree with others fuzzy self care is first, i too dont always put that first but we should remind our selves sometimes that pleasing others isnt as inportant as pleasing our selves
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Hope you are ok
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Isn't that the truth!
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![]() ![]() Set healthy boundaries with people in your life and know your own limitations. ![]() |
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Thinking of you my ((((((((fuzzy)))))))) friend
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Yeah!!!!!!!!!
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Hi Fuzzzzzyyyyy......
![]() Please take care of yourself right now. You sound overwhelmed. It's okay to step back, get recharged and do something good for you first. "Once you're used up there is no more you" ![]() ![]() ![]() Go play - ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))) Take care of yourself and try to do right by others and be true to what you believe...that is all any of us can do. You are a wonderful person and I appreciate you
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I have felt the same way sooooo often fuzzy. Hang on, don't try to please everyone it is impossible. We are worth so much more than to not be appreciated. Everyone needs time alone to rest, reflect and regain our inner strength before we go forward again because we will have people we do want to please who truly appreciates it, and will want to please us.
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I hear ya fuzzybear.. Setting healthy "boundries" and self care is so important to one's well being....
A healthy balance does not include always pleasing others. When we spend our lives pleasing others we somehow lose more of our self worth even tho ones that tends try to always please others, already have low self esteem...And pleasing others never builds our self esteem... We either become taken for granted, floor mats or many times just used... Being a people pleaser all of my life and just starting to say no has cause several folks to vent their anger and some times rage towards me. This some times feels worse than taking the easy way out and saying yes. But, standing strong on our decisions can be self empowering, which in the long run is a "good thing".. |
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Pleasing people at the expense of yourself is what causes problems.
If I take care of myself first, then I don't end up resenting others and feeling like crap myself.
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