[ChristenTheNight]

I'm so depressed. My girlfriend hasn't been over in about a month due to her mother, and she just turned me down for coming over again. Earlier she said maybe, but now gave me an excuse. Her mother has been trying to drive a wedge between us, saying I make her daughter depressed by pushing my sadness on her.

I love her so much, and it hurts very badly to be kept away from her so long. I've not felt so depressed like this in my life. I normally have major depression, anxiety, and other problems, but this has me feeling horribly sad.

I almost feel like dying. Giving up. It hurts so much. I feel like I wanna end this sadness... not that I probably have the courage to even try.

I'm sorry if I sound overdramatic... I just feel like this.

[I_WMD]

Amazing ... I was just reading your Bio ... Tatiana ?? [ not sure if I spelled it right ] .

You 14 ,,,, years old ,,,, All relationships , whether you are young or old >> Like Me << ..... Become an integral part of our lives.

The thing about as we age we have more to guide us from lifes lessons ,,,,, And understanding as to why becomes simpler >>>> STILL HURTS <<<<.

But Exceptance becomes a place of knowledge and Then we can Be more patient .

Just thought I would share that with Ya. Take Care and .. All in life have Drama ,,, it is not reserved for just a few .

[Sultrysorrow]

I know your pain. Believe me I do. I've had my mother-in-law try to brainwash and destroy my wife for her own self interests. Mother -in-law is a life long cyclic alcoholic.
And there have been times that my wife has been confused and it rattled our marriage to the point of separation on more than one occasion.
After severals years of this I believe she (my wife) has come around and finally seen the light. Now her love and dedication for me is more than it has ever been in almost 8 years. I love and have devoted myself to her in the same manner.
I empathize with your tears your anger your la`ment.
And know the feeling of just giving up and telling yourself ultimatiums.
You do have control of your life and your life only. It's how you choose to act on it that will determine your day's months and years to come.

[curley]

It is really difficult when a parent tries to stand in the way of their childs relationships, and of course their happiness. If the b/f or g/f makes their child happy then you would think that would be enough. Even though you are sad because your g/f can not come over I would try to have your spirits up when you speak with her. She may get off the phone and tell her mom how sad you are and how sad she is! Probably out of frustration but her mother sees her as sad once again. Will her mother allow you to visit their home?
Have you ever gone over and asked the moms permission to spend some time with her daughter. If not you may try.
Sometimes it is some work to get what you want. Most of the time it is worth it. Good luck to you and your girlfriend.

[Ocean13]

It's obvious it's not just the 'parents' getting in the way. Your girlfriend has chosen to move on. So, MOVE ON! Don't waste your time and energy getting depressed over someone that wants to move on. Life is all about things coming and going. Go out and have fun. Smile and laugh. Don't ever let this girl see you sad again. There's a huge world out there to explore and a lot of HAPPY people to be with. Cheer up! You're free!! -OCEAN

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I'm so depressed. My girlfriend hasn't been over in about a month due to her mother, and she just turned me down for coming over again. Earlier she said maybe, but now gave me an excuse. Her mother has been trying to drive a wedge between us, saying I make her daughter depressed by pushing my sadness on her.

I love her so much, and it hurts very badly to be kept away from her so long. I've not felt so depressed like this in my life. I normally have major depression, anxiety, and other problems, but this has me feeling horribly sad.

I almost feel like dying. Giving up. It hurts so much. I feel like I wanna end this sadness... not that I probably have the courage to even try.

I'm sorry if I sound overdramatic... I just feel like this.

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[Jaide]

If as the poster below you has confirmed, that you are in fact, 14 years old, then believe me, you have a lifetime ahead of you to find the right person. I understand how you feel, living in the present is the easiest thing in the world, but sometimes you have to look past the present and see what would be better off for both of you.

My parents have come between a relationship before as well, and I know how frustrating it is to try and try to make them see what a great person they/you are. If the girl is willing to put her parents before you, she must not have the same feelings for you as you for her.

I say, try to get over her and move along, because she doesn't seem worth waiting for if she can't stand up to her parents for the sake of your relationship.

[StarPonysMama]

Ahhh, I remember 14 - a long time ago - yet I remember my GENUINE hurt over my lost "first love".

I am going to tell you what you already know. You have many years ahead of you. She is just one girl. Nothing in life is perfect or easy. Tears are cleansing. Pick yourself up, dust your britches off, and get back on the horse!

Don't let her (or her parents) get you down!

Congratulations on a new baby sister by the way!

[BalishBun]

I hate it when parents think that they can keep someones relationship apart. If you are making a mistake then you should be allowed to do so. The parent should not be the third person in the relationship.