[Twinmama831]

After everything I have gone through and dealt with since August for him... for him to not trust me and I still wake to him going through my phone and what he's "screenshotting as cheating". I have sold pictures online, as he is fully aware of. When he feels nasty it's just ammo for him to fight me with.
I have gone through hell again and again for him. I'm now currently living cross country with him for the sake of having him around for me and the kids. I don't know how to feel anymore. Defeated I guess. I sold the house even. All because he couldn't faces his own charges. I have nobody here. I'm sad that I feel like I have no options out. I'm tired of waking in the same panic. I just feel like I lost everything and yet somehow part of me feels like this is " just how life is". I'm tired for always being wrong.

[divine1966]

I am shocked you are still with this man. The one that abused your young child? I don’t recall if he abuses you too but I am sure he does. I am terrified on your children’s and yours behalf. Looking through your phone us the least if the troubles here. Is there any way you can get away? You’d be safer in a shelter.

Oh boy I just looked at old posts and he abused you too. Please just leave when he’s not home and take yourself and your kids to DV shelter. They’ll help you with the rest. Don’t call shelters because he’ll see it on your phone. Just drive there with the kids.