I’m scared of my neighbour

Omg, please stay the hell away from that rude creep! He sounds unhinged & he’s probably a narcissist too.

Don’t be polite. Be very assertive & loudly tell him to go away, leave you alone & to never ever talk to you again or you’ll call the police & file a restraining order for stalking & harassing you!

Talk to the landlord. Document everything. Get a security camera. Avoid the areas he lingers around. Check your mail very early in the morning or when he’s at work.

Walk in the opposite direction if you see him. Do not talk to him period. He already thinks you’re rude already.

Tell him to **** off loudly. If you see people around, then go talk to them & warn them about him. He’s crazy. If you see a neighbor there, try being near them so that he’ll be less likely to approach you or attack you.

Buy pepper spray & take self defense classes. Leave a bat by your door & get secure locks & a surveillance camera roo.

He sounds like a stalker. You might need to move out soon if things don’t change.

He was out front with the neighbours yesterday and today when I was out. Which is nothing serious. He hasn’t followed me to the places I go which is great.

He was walking around the building today and startled my cat, and she nearly got away from me.

I had to yell at him to ****ing stand still so I could get my cat.

We’re clashing for sure.

I unfortunately have a nagging concern that management told him I said something. I thought I overheard him tell my crackhead neighbour that I called the police Information line.

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Originally Posted by Stillhuman He was out front with the neighbours yesterday and today when I was out. Which is nothing serious. He hasn’t followed me to the places I go which is great. He was walking around the building today and startled my cat, and she nearly got away from me. I had to yell at him to ****ing stand still so I could get my cat. We’re clashing for sure. I unfortunately have a nagging concern that management told him I said something. I thought I overheard him tell my crackhead neighbour that I called the police Information line.

Well if they did tell him, it worked & served the purpose of keeping him away from you. Sure wouldn't worry about that

good idea

Sounds like a great idea and great plans for emergencies.

Unfortunately I think this may have resulted in him playing victim to his crackhead friends, and him playing on their immense paranoia of the police.

One of the neighbours who he idolizes is a crackhead, and has an unshakable delusion that I am an undercover cop.

A regular person would back off, but these are the kinds of people who freak out, and might incite aggressive reactions in others.

Being told this information might incite revenge.

He is not making threats, but he appears to be where I want be; he was out last night and I had to take an alternate route. Taking alternate routes to avoid the guy has been something I had to do a couple of times this week already, and it spooks me when I see him out at night.

I do have a security camera, and a door jamb with an alarm that goes off if someone tries to open my door.

I’m noting things. Checking in with my mental health to make sure I am not making something out of nothing.

Hi Still human, sorry to hear of latest problems.

His behaviour is still unacceptable. I hope you are still keeping a record of everything. Did you ask Building Management if they'd divulged who had complained. If they did then they haven't recognised data protection (your identity) and your personal safety.

Sounds like only solution is to find another apartment. Good luck!

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Unfortunately I think this may have resulted in him playing victim to his crackhead friends, and him playing on their immense paranoia of the police.

Definitely sounds like a neighborhood/area to move away from for your own safety even without this happening

oh no!