[babydoll]

Hi I'm new and just found this forum. And so glad I did I really need a friend now! The man I have loved for 26 yrs and have a 27 year old child by, I pushed out of my life! And I'm satting here going crazy! We had finally got togeather and I tell him he needs to go back to his ex! Because I got tired of her calling 20 times a day! He wouldn't talk to her but I felt like he should have told her to leave us alone.So my bp come out and I took him over her house and left him! I've seen him once and I was with my ex .I went up and talked to him and he said he loved me! So if he loves me why dosen't he call or come over? I try and find him out but no luck. And of course she won't let me talk to him! I want him back so bad but should I go ahead and cry and leave him be? Any and all advice please I need others outlook. Thanks!

[Wants2Fly]

I Babydoll. Welcome to the forums.

I had something similar happen -- the man I was with for 15 years left to go on his truck route, called from California to say, "It's over," and never came back. No fighting. No warning he was leaving. In fact, we'd just bought a home together a few months before this happened.

I like what Ozzie said. Time to work on ourselves. Society gives us lots of messages that "normal" means to be in a couple. So it can be tough to go it alone.

I wish you peace and blessings. Keep coming back.