Pushed too far and said too much :(

Now I have fallen into the deepest, darkest pit, which is where I belong, and what I deserve.

My parents were nothing but liars, but my honesty is just as destructive

Please do not be so hard on yourself, it will pass over, give it time dear bear

** hugs **
DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

What on earth are you talking about, {{{{{{{{Bear?}}}}}}}} Did you state your opinions or make your feeling heard... like I did? You have a perfect right, you know. It doesn't mean that others will agree with you or that they'll decide your way, but I have no doubt you were taken into consideration.

Stop beating yourself up, Sensitive Bear. Life does that for us well enough. Be proud that you had the courage to speak up about whatever it was. People here love you to death! Why are you so hard on yourself when no one else is? If you really feel that you got pushed too far, next time don't wait so long to say something. Release the "steam" before it builds up preasure.

You're more than just okay in my book, FuzzyBear!



He's making a list and checking it twice...

Fuzzy,

You are such a sensitive person, always worried about how things are taken.

I am thankfully getting to know you better, and I'm glad because you are wonderful. Please stop being so hard on yourself.

Your caring and compassion are a rare find these days - other people in 3D don't have that.

Please know that you are so loved here.

Mary Alice

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Dear Fuzzy,

You are such a kind and sensitive person, and I really like talking to you. I don't understand why you think you deserve this misery. You deserve happiness. I think that depression is lying to you. I've been so glad to be able to get to know you through chat and your posts here. Talking with you has brightened my day many times. I'm sorry that you are having a hard time, and hope that you feel better about yourself very soon. You are a good person, and you're not destructive. I like the way you look for solutions to problems. You also ask wonderful thought-provoking questions and get us all thinking and using our brains and discovering what we think about things. And you care about people and express your concer or send hugs when someone needs it. You're really great!

Love,
Wendy

<font color=green>"Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible" Carl Jung</font color=green>

I have to say I have been there, at thanksgiving my stepmother said
somethings that made me angry, instead of saying anything though I
held it in but it showed in my face and body language.... I have been
told by others I have the the right to say what I think and that I don't need
them to mother me, but to support me.... and that what they say usually
sounds more like a put down. and that doesn't help me at all considering
how unsure of myself I really am. It drags me down, but it drags me
farther down because I won't speak up for myself, how do I do this
without hurting them or me.... not to mention I am afraid I will say the
wrong thing and just make things worse....
Bear at least you were brave enough to say something.

Bevers

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Soooo good to hear from you! At least we know you're alive! Please, please drop by more often!

Hey, I hope your mailbox wasn't too full of my email! I've tried real hard to keep it down but it's not easy. Drop me a line, will you?

Luv ya!



He's making a list and checking it twice...

{{{{{{{{Bev}}}}}}}}}}

How are you doing hun???? I've been missing you and hope you are doing ok?


Heather

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on."
~~Robert Frost

Dear Bear,

The truth only hurts those who can't stand to hear it, and I'd rather be hurt by the truth than spared by a lie. You are a kind, warm, and sensitive person, and you've brightened my life. Your friendship means a great deal to me. You deserve good things. God, I wish you could see the person I see. Then you'd know why I love you so much. Don't stay in this pit long, I will come and get you.

H&K,
bp

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

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I want you to know that you do not belong there in that pit. You definitely do not deserve it. Try to stay strong and focused on how loved you are. We will pull you out and hold your hand.


Heather

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on."
~~Robert Frost

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You are such a wonderful person, I do not know if I can say anything differnt from what all have already said, but for you my darling fuzzy, i am giong to try..
<center> <font color=purple>you have put light into my life
you hve shown me how to care
you have shown me that life is good
you hve shown me that others do care
You my darling fuzzy have shown not just me, but others that our life is full of meaning
You have also shown me that just because I am down, I have a network of people on here who do truly care about me
You my fuzzy wuzzy teady bear, have also shown all of us , how to care with out being judgemental..
So pleas darling fuzzy, dont beat yourslef up too much..
I will have bandages, and lots of warm hugs for you when you are done..

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( (((Fuzzybear ))) ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You are so loved by everyone. I hope I get that same opportunity to get to know you better. I hope by today you are feeling a bit better. nobody belongs in that deepest, darkest place you may be in now.
but you are only permitted to visit that place once in a blue moon.
Take a look, we are here to rescue you.. they all love you and I want too to. Fuzzy wuzzy was a Bear, Fuzzy wuzzy had no hair, Fuzzy wuzzy wasn't Fuzzy Wuz he?? (hee) smile honey...

hope to hear from ya soon..
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ your soon to be friend Duchess~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Though I have fallen, I will rise.
though I sit in darkness, the LORD will be my light
...He will bring me out into the light; I will see his
righteousness........... Micah 7:8-9

Thank you to all of you for your wonderful messages, you are all such great people! It is true, none of us deserve to be in a pit, I'm not believing those lies now ..... xoxoxox

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Love,
Fuzzy

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Fuzzy-
The only problem with being honest, is we think others are honest too, which usually lets us down in some way or another. I have come to the conclusion that my family does not know how to tell the truth unless it is used to hurt somebody else. Ho humm.

(((((((((((((((The person with the really cool sign on name)))))))))))))))))))))))))
(I collect fuzzy bears)
Love to you
bren

Fuzzybear we have a Tweetybird Blanket tent set up in our playroom an theres room for you anytime you want to hibernate with us
Amy &amp; Laura

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(((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))))) I hope you're doing okay sweetheart.

((angie)) thanks for the idea. I usually just climb under the blanket and cover my head and curl up. The tent idea is fantastic. Im gonna make myself one for when I'm sad or just want to be alone.

AG-- that is the cutest picture. It put a smile on my face too so thank you.

Take care everybody and much love to you all,
Kimberly.

Thanks everyone
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Grrrr,
Love,
Fuzzy