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#1
Dec 04, 2007, 12:12 AM
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Me and my bf broke up recently, it's totally my fault..
I didn't treat him that well, and said things to him that I don't really mean, but was a spirit of the moment... i think hurt him... and now we broke up, and he's start seeing this new girl.. and I am feeling terrible.... I thought we lost passion, and love.. but the truth is, he's the only the person I want to make love to right now..but now he's gone.. i miss him soooo much, i don't know what to do.. he really loved me before, and I didn't treasure.. and now I am feeling really devastated... I let him go, and trying my very best not to contact him.. but it's sooo damn hard.. he told me, it's too late, whatever I do now, is what he needed in the past 3 years.... i feel really crap........... i know he still have feelings for me... but i really don't know what to do .... |
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#2
Dec 04, 2007, 12:33 AM
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I think the answer lies with in HIM and HIM only...... ((( hugs ))).
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Dec 04, 2007, 01:17 AM
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jaaa,
It doesn't hurt to try. Tell him everything that you've told us. Good luck!
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#4
Dec 05, 2007, 03:06 PM
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Did you apologize to him, tell him you think you hurt him and are sorry? What was the conversation where he said it was too late? It may be like Rhapsody said, out of your hands and in his only. I would not "interrupt" him if he is moving on with his life.
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#5
Mar 02, 2008, 04:52 AM
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sometimes. If he has already moved on then maybe thats your answer, I think if he really wanted to be with you he wouldnt be with anyone else. Try and find out how he acts with her, she's probably a rebound. Give it some time and see what happens, and if you still want him back if you really love him and you think he still loves you, try again but if he turns you down accept it. Dont waste your time trying to get him back just focus on you. You deserve someone who will want you, the way you want them. Go do things have fun get your mind off him. Sometimes when they see you dont care anymore they start wanting you back. But if you take really good care of yourself in the end you'll be on top and you wont even want him anymore then he'll be the one missing.
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#6
Mar 02, 2008, 09:47 AM
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Whenever I get into a fight with my husband, in the heat of the moment I always decompartmentise and say things I shouldnt. Then once I think about it I feel so bad.
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Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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#7
Mar 02, 2008, 10:50 AM
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You broke his heart. This is why we always have to think long and hard before we mess it up with the other person in our lives. Maybe this HAD to happen to you so that you will learn for your future relationships. Apologize to him if you REALLY want to be with him. Even if he really really loves you and even if he forgives you and takes you back, things won't be the same for either of you. This negative experience will always be hanging above your heads. There is a lot of healing to be done.
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#8
Mar 07, 2008, 04:31 AM
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Recently I had a relationship that ended and was 90% my fault. Maybe the fact that I have never felt it was all my fault or and the fact that I still love the man, it hurts so much. He also told me the door is closed and he has someone else too. I guess we never really know what we have until it is gone! I wish I had some good advise. If you have not already told him what you told us, I would at least try that. But after that you will have to remember this for furture relationships! Treasure what you have so you dont lose it. Good luck. My heart goes out for you
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People are like stained glass windows They sparkle and shine in the sun but when darkness hits their true beauty is revealed only when there is light within . Elizabeth Krubel-Ros |
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#9
Mar 09, 2008, 02:19 AM
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No, I dont think there is such thing as too late. maybe there are exceptions but mainly no.
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Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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