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Apr 25, 2008, 12:32 AM
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What I say: I love you and I know that time apart will help us to both work on our own issues. We are going to be better people in the long run. I miss you and I miss us being together. You will be just fine dealing with the co-dependency. You are going to be better off later.
 What I REALLY want to say: Pleeeease come back. I will never let my bipolar rule my life ever again. I will never explode again. I love you more than I love anything or anyone. I am so lost without you. I feel lifeless without you here. My alters are missing you so very very very much. They blame me for everything. They hate me and wish they were with you.  I don't want him to feel like I am just saying things to get him back...mainly cuz that is what I feel like doing, but I really really really am a complete and utter mess without him here. I know he will be back one day in the future, but I need him NOW!   BJ 
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Apr 25, 2008, 12:45 AM
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((((((((((((( BJ )))))))))))))
  
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Apr 25, 2008, 01:57 AM
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Apr 25, 2008, 09:00 AM
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((((((((((((BJ))))))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 25, 2008, 12:05 PM
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I just did the same thing to my husband. over and over again.
I feel where you are coming from right now. colleen
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Apr 25, 2008, 12:56 PM
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ho i am so sorry for you!
I recommend saying what you want to say rather than trying to fit into what is more exceptable or "i don`t want him to think this or that" the truth of your heart is way more efficient... that is what i have learned in life But again YOU are in this relationship so you know better if course mean while, we are here for you hope that things will turn out better for you |
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Apr 25, 2008, 05:20 PM
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It's probably ok to tell him you love him more than anything else on the face of the Earth. As a man, I would like to hear that. But you'll have to guage the situation for yourself.
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Apr 25, 2008, 05:58 PM
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Thanks for the advice and help. I am about as co-dependent as he is and am afraid that if I tell him what I really want to, that I will scare him or make him feel bad or something. I am working with my T and trying to figure out what to do.
Thanks, Conquistador, I think I will tell him that I love him more than anything else of the face of the Earth, especially since you told me that you would like to hear that and who would no better than another man?!LOL Thanks again. BJ
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Apr 25, 2008, 10:53 PM
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(((((BJ)))))
Hang in there. |
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Apr 26, 2008, 07:32 PM
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I hope things work for you ive been co- dependent my self . At the time I didnt see how my bipolar was hurting my wife and we were so co-dependent we lose each other it takes time and alot of work but im sure you can work it out .
Blind melon sings this song about bipoalr and being co-dependent .He wrote for his girlfreind who was bipolar and very co-dependent on him and in the end he finds that just as in love and co-dependent for her . songs called ~no rain~ |
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