my boyfriend hates me.

This is our text conversation from today.

me: come to my locker after this period?
kevin: why
me: to see you...or do you not have time before the bell?
kevin: no i just don't want to see you
me: ?
kevin: i don't want to see you
me: why
kevin: why not
me: what's wrong what did i do?
kevin: it's not gonna work
me: why
kevin: it just isn't
me: you can't give me a reason? don't you know how much i love you?
kevin: you don't though
me: yes i do kevin. why are you doing this
kevin: what
me: why are you so upset? what makes you think that i hate you?
kevin: i don't think that, you just haven't shown any love to me
me: what about the way i hold you? what about the way i don't want to let you go? you don't even know what i write in my journal.
kevin: don't even know you have a journal. go to your locker after this class.

That was in history and I started crying in the middle of the class. No one knew though, my bangs are long. He didn't come to my locker after he just walked past it. So he told me to go after the next period which was the last period of the day. I go and I was like what's wrong? And he was like nothing. I was like well you basically just broke up with me (he took our date out of his signature) so I don't even know if you care anymore. He said he didn't break up with me. I asked him what do you want and he said don't worry about it. Outside he apologized. I told him I love him and he said he loves me too. Then I cried on the bus. The way home. I don't need anymore people who aren't going to care about me. I've had enough experience with those kinds of people in my life.

He didn't want to see me...
"I don't want to see you."

(((((mandazzle)))))

It really sounds like he has something going on in his head. I don't know about how guys think since I'm not a guy but it sounds like he is thinking about something.

I know it must hurt terribly and I hope you two can work this out...I really do. But remember that even if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world...but it will hurt.

sweetie don't let this upset you so much, sounds like a normal teenage boy with growing up issues, hang in there

Well great. He hates me all over again.
It's his birthday on Saturday and I was texting him about what he wants because I need to get something for him.

me: what kind of candy do you like?
kevin: none.
me: well what do you like besides monster?
kevin: nothing.
me: nothing?
kevin: nothing.
me: well what am I supposed to get you then?
kevin: nothing.
me: are you sure because I would feel bad if I didn't get you anything.
Then he didn't reply so I sent it again. He still didn't reply.
me: are you getting my texts or is my phone not working?
kevin: I am.
me: why aren't you answering me?
kevin: idk.
me: is there anything wrong?
kevin: nothing.
me: ok well if you want to talk I'll be here to listen.

He never answered. Is there something wrong with me? There must be something I'm doing wrong.

Your not doing anything wrong. If anything, you are doing more than you should be here. He probably just needs time. I bet if you were to leave him alone for awhile and hang out like its no big deal, he would be like....

I know you are hurting. No one wants to be treated this way. I hope things work out soon for you.....

(((mandazzle)))

I'm so sorry for your hurt, especially during a school day

((((mandazzle))))

Aww sweetie... your not doing anything wrong, but for him to do that I can relate to the pain your feeling now. Im sure he doesnt HATE you... but he is very, very immature of him to break up with you for no reason at all, you deserve better than him.

Just dont try and blame yourself for his behaviour, he's just being an arse. Bloody fella's.

Eat choccie and keep talking, you'll feel better eventually hun

babyg xXx

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Well great. He hates me all over again.
It's his birthday on Saturday and I was texting him about what he wants because I need to get something for him.

me: what kind of candy do you like?
kevin: none.
me: well what do you like besides monster?
kevin: nothing.
me: nothing?
kevin: nothing.
me: well what am I supposed to get you then?
kevin: nothing.
me: are you sure because I would feel bad if I didn't get you anything.
Then he didn't reply so I sent it again. He still didn't reply.
me: are you getting my texts or is my phone not working?
kevin: I am.
me: why aren't you answering me?
kevin: idk.
me: is there anything wrong?
kevin: nothing.
me: ok well if you want to talk I'll be here to listen.

He never answered. Is there something wrong with me? There must be something I'm doing wrong.

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Hey Buddy ,, just to lighten it up some >>.... Pretend it is my Birthday this Saturday ..

I especially appreciate the Things that just make me smile >> Well > and LOL >> Of Course .


I Easy ! >>>> I 've kinda been thinking Bout an umbrella >> That keeps the rain off two peeps , and has two handles ,, for when the other needs to wipe the spray from the others face ,,, and Give a small hug and >>> then go back to sharing the load .

Pretend that you are really happy and laughing in front of him with your friends so he can think it doesn't bother you. He'll probably start crawling back to you. If you show him that you are miserable without him and really sad, it may be a turnoff. It sounds crazy but it works. Good luck to you and I hope it works out!

ok all of these people are right it sounds like this boy has few problems him self i wouldnt put to much thought into this at all you have done evrything possible to try and make him happy and he did not except that i feel so sorry that you have to deal with these miserable events in your life if you ask me it sounds like he did not truely love you not the other way around maybe it will be for the best of things that you both go your own way i mean yeah the single life sucks but the heart ache of being with the wrong person is even worse i HOPE you find some one who really love's you and will not treat you so badly you have done nothing wrong so dont blame yourself