You know you have erotic transference when..

Would it be terrible to PM a publicly available one? I'd like to see.

You wear that shirt that you're normally a bit self-conscious about because it shows a little bit of cleavage... And you spent most of your session leaning down with your elbows on your knees because of, you know, "emotional exhaustion."

Ok yes, I was exhausted, but I know damn well I was leaning forward to show off a bit.

* no regrets,*

Every time you walk behind him your heart drops into your stomach. Every time he bounces in with a big smile saying hi then you have to switch it all off when the door is shut and he takes out his notepad and starts asking clinical questions

Wow, women really like a man who just sits back and listens. I'm writing this down.

You scan faces in the street in case its him, but you're also nervous about running into him out of the office.

Well....I would characterize it more as a mix of really liking and exquisite torture. So I would hope you don't plan to subject anybody to that. But maybe the listening part would be good.

Yeah, but you gotta REALLY listen. Not just pretend. We can tell the difference you know

Your husband grows a beard. Then you walk in and see your T has grown one as well. I prefer them clean shaven for a couple of reasons but they do look good with beards. Short, trimmed beards.

You are currently obsessed with criminal minds because T looks exactly like AJ Cook who plays JJ

Lucky you!

When you meet your new psy doc and think "dang he's foine"!

Exactly how I felt when I met mine. Well even before he called my name!

When his comb over grows on you. When you see a coffee stain on his shirt and fantasize about what it would be like to do his laundry.

My exact thoughts when I saw my T for the first time at the clinic ... that was before I even knew he would be my new T

lol, really cute blueblonde!

it took my breath away for a moment,lol.

When you go to that crappy restaurant again and again because you saw your T there once.

....rather than thinking, wow, this guy/girl has bad taste in restaurants

When you are amused by her having a remote control for the air conditioner next to her armchair.

LOL! That's dedication WrkNPrgress! Usually people draw the line when it comes to their food!

You suddenly become interested in push-up bras after not having bought any fancy undies for the last 8 years because your real-life bf doesn't really care about underwear. And you never saw the point of padded bras anyway.

Well, okay the food's not that crappy. It's just not my first choice. LOL. I don't need tacos that often.

I'd definitely eat tacos, or even something actually crappy if I could hit that (is that even used for a guy?). But maybe not right before.

You have the habit of going and standing against a wall with your eyes closed imagining that the wall is T holding you solidly.

I told T I can talk to him everyday & I asked for permission to text him. He said ok. I tapped him on his arm. First contact ever!! 😊