You know you have erotic transference when..

how bout no clothes, hood of my car

Oh god yes yes yes!

I respect T too much to turn her into a men's magazine model.

I respect him but my imagination runs away often.

Haha... I was asked my my New Therapist, other week... did I Stalk my last Therapist!! I was so shocked.. but I didn't stalk him... just sent him lots of facebook messages.. but he the therapist. (Who I had feelings for) never replied to even ONE of my messages.. I so wanted him to say.. yes I will help you, and say, don't worry about my messages, I sent him.

I would like to follow my therapist to see where she lives and what she does with her spare time.

My mind wonders this. It's a little game of curiosity I play but I talk myself out of it. I might get disappointed if I knew everything. Right now, my T is perfect and it helps make my fantasies better. Sometimes not knowing is ok.

SAME! I want to watch her... If she does... have sex with her husband (even though I'm jealous) or... Just shower. What she does alone.... Just Live her life..

I need help

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I'm too curious, If I had a chance to know, I'd say yes to knowing!!! Ugh I don't even wanna think that she could be disappointing because it seems impossible for her to be!!!

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I'm so curious about my T's life outside work. I want to know how she lives, how she has decorated her house, I want to look in her closet. I want to know what music and programs she likes. I want to know if she works out or something.

Same with pdoc. But I also wonder if he has a girlfriend and how often he has sex. And then I wonder what his favorite positions are...

When you're at a concert and she starts singing a song, you hear the lyrics and you have to think of him.

She's straight I know, and I think currently single.

So I imagine I'm an attractive man making love to her, sigh. It doesn't help that I'm bisexual and so it isn't just transference.

I feel your pain

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Every time you see a couple kiss for the first time, it makes you think of you and T.

When you go to bed after a session and lay there daydreaming about being in a relationship with her and giving her pleasure.

When you're upset with him about something that happened recently with him and plan to talk about it with him in session, but then when you first sit down and look at him, your first thought is, "Oh, he looks good today."

When he calls you to check up with you and you can only hear his voice and his voice... His voice is so nice to listen to. And then you imagine what he could say to you with that voice. All the romantic and dirty things he could tell you.

I wish I would get a phone call. I called him once when I was in the hospital. He said, it's great to hear my voice! It makes me tingling...lol!

That's nice that he said that!

This was a planned Phone call. I don't think there will me more. I was very short with him en ended the Phone call very soon. But it was so nice to hear his voice

Oh my Gosh!! you guys are so funny!

And reminded me that my New therapist called me yesterday.. as I had forgotten when my next meeting with him was.. and I listened to his voice on my phone when he has left a message... I wondered why I listened to the message a couple of times! Cos he sounded really kind.. but I cant afford to get Attached to him.. like I did to my last Therapist.. Noway.!!

Keep your therapy "detached" and you'll be okay... Don't end up like me not being able to ever leave or let go after 5 years !!!

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Like, I mean avoid hugs, hand holding, asking about them. Etc

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Wow.. Amelia.. that was a quick reply.. thanks much.. I have some idea how you feel.. I had feelings for my last Therapist.. in 2012.. and recently seen his photo on internet.. and I missed talking to him. but he dont want talk to me.. I tried alot.

Hope your able to let go. too soon! take care.

Well, I am having to shake his hands, cos my Ocd is about contamination.. and when I shake hands.. I dont grasp his hand.. and he says.. shake his hand in a firm grip.