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Old Dec 05, 2018, 09:40 PM
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Thank You All for your prayers. My Sister In Law passed about 12:30 this afternoon. My pain at the moment is great. Connie passed without anyone there with Her, and I am having a very hard time with that.
I am so sorry to heat that you sister in law passes away. I understand complicated grief very well. I am hear for you as well as everyone at PC.. Please do not blame yourself for not being able to get there.
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Old Dec 06, 2018, 08:57 AM
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Thank you all for your Thoughts, and Prayers. Yesterday was very hard bc I knew how it was all going to turn out, and I knew there wasn't anything I could do about it. My H, and I talked a lot last night, and I found out that he had a very hard childhood, and was emotionally, and physically abused, but his way to protect him self is completely different than mine. I know he will never go to see anyone, but at least He is talking, and we understand each other better. It is hard to realize that you can be with someone over 25 years, and not know about things. My SIL passing yesterday gave me, and my H a new understanding about each other.
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Old Dec 08, 2018, 02:45 PM
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So sorry for your loss.
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Old Dec 09, 2018, 01:45 PM
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Thank you all for your Thoughts, and Prayers. Yesterday was very hard bc I knew how it was all going to turn out, and I knew there wasn't anything I could do about it. My H, and I talked a lot last night, and I found out that he had a very hard childhood, and was emotionally, and physically abused, but his way to protect him self is completely different than mine. I know he will never go to see anyone, but at least He is talking, and we understand each other better. It is hard to realize that you can be with someone over 25 years, and not know about things. My SIL passing yesterday gave me, and my H a new understanding about each other.
I am very sorry for your loss.
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Old Dec 10, 2018, 08:36 AM
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I am very sorry for your loss.
Thank you, it has been a hard week.
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Old Dec 10, 2018, 09:12 AM
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Thank you, it has been a hard week.
I believe it was hard how do you feel? We're here if you need to vent.
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Old Dec 17, 2018, 08:43 PM
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Thank every one of you. This has been a very difficult thing for me bc I have a very hard time knowing someone, especially family has gone on alone. It has always hurt me so bad that any person had passed alone, no matter who they were. Thank you all for being supportive to me in some of my most times of need!!!!!!! (((((((MAJOR BIG HUGS TO ALL)))))))
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Old Dec 20, 2018, 09:38 PM
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katydid sorry for your loss. Sounds like the healing has started. Hugs to you.
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Old Dec 22, 2018, 09:07 AM
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I believe it was hard how do you feel? We're here if you need to vent.
I agree we are here for you if you need us.
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Old Dec 22, 2018, 09:09 AM
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I’m so sorry that you could not be there with her. I’m also sorry that there is no one there with you that understands your feelings.

I wish I had words that could make it better. I continue to pray for peace and Gods presence to be with you and comfort you.

I am sending you a gentle hug. Requesting Prayers
I'm sorry that you have to go through this now especially through the holiday.
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Old Dec 22, 2018, 09:10 AM
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Thank you, it has been a hard week.
I do understand. It is always hard.
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Old Dec 22, 2018, 09:10 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss
Let us give you a big group hug.
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Old Dec 22, 2018, 09:13 AM
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Thank every one of you. This has been a very difficult thing for me bc I have a very hard time knowing someone, especially family has gone on alone. It has always hurt me so bad that any person had passed alone, no matter who they were. Thank you all for being supportive to me in some of my most times of need!!!!!!! (((((((MAJOR BIG HUGS TO ALL)))))))
I'm here for you!
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Old Dec 22, 2018, 10:04 AM
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How are you doing, katydid777? I hope you're feeling a bit better. Sending many hugs to you
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Old Jan 14, 2019, 09:07 PM
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How are you doing, katydid777? I hope you're feeling a bit better. Sending many hugs to you
I was thinking the same thing!
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