Roll Call 95~

OliverB · Aug 12, 2017, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Morning. Had coffee and stuff.

I think I wouldn't be able to live without coffee lol

newtus · Aug 12, 2017, 08:48 AM

I want to have sex

cogladaid · Aug 12, 2017, 08:57 AM

I slept well so that's cool.

ofthevalley · Aug 12, 2017, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Gr3tta_0

So here's a long update, if anyone is interested, or not.
On Tues i did see my pcp. I padded my weight at intake (never been busted, probably don't need to bother,) we argued about sleep meds, i refused psych meds, i got switched from fast acting to long acting sleep med then realized i can't pick anything up because i don't have my new insurance card yet. Still waiting. ....and waiting....
On Thurs my wife and i met with the transplant team. ....I'll just go with long story short: we're waiting on the final answer, but we pretty much know what its going to be. She's approved for transplant, but on hold. She'll (we'll) have to get some more things in order before she gets a green light for transplant. This is what we expect to hear back.
For me as a donor: I'm still getting set up. I might get completely rejected outright for my mental health history, even before my medical history gets vetted. Or i might be able to get listed as "high risk," which means potential swap donors could pass on me. I don't know yet.
....and i really really really hate not knowing

Oh boy you have a lot going on

I'm thinking of you.

ofthevalley · Aug 12, 2017, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Kori Anders

srs question guys

do you think it would be a good idea to ask a friend of mine if he would have a baby with me?

i want to raise the baby on my own so i wouldn't expect him to do anything

i wouldn't even expect child support i would just like to think of it as a sperm donation

is this smart? i am 22 and i feel like i am ready to be a mom

Are you financially secure? Kids are super expensive. Are you able to provide good health insurance? Kids (especially babies) go to the doctors a lot. Are you mentally stable enough? Kids are trying. They don't sleep. They don't let you eat. They eat all.the.time.
It's a lot to think about. Having a baby is a big deal.

newtus · Aug 12, 2017, 09:19 AM

Im not very hungry today

Angelique67 · Aug 12, 2017, 09:26 AM

The popular guy, who is friends with everyone except me, has been hanging out with my roommate at the smoke breaks. Why does he even have to befriend her? Do those idiots think.im the one who complained about the popular girl? And conspiring to make me miserable? I want to get away from here.

ofthevalley · Aug 12, 2017, 09:30 AM

Good morning. Hope everyone is having a good day.
I'm going out shopping with my mother in law today. We are going to red robin. My daughter and I love rr so we are excited lol.
What's everyone else got planned?

ofthevalley · Aug 12, 2017, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Angelique67

The popular guy, who is friends with everyone except me, has been hanging out with my roommate at the smoke breaks. Why does he even have to befriend her? Do those idiots think.im the one who complained about the popular girl? And conspiring to make me miserable? I want to get away from here.

I hope you get out soon. It's been long enough. What are they waiting for? A place to open up?

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 09:33 AM

Idk what to do. I wish I was dead.

Angelique67 · Aug 12, 2017, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by ofthevalley

I hope you get out soon. It's been long enough. What are they waiting for? A place to open up?

Thank you. I don't know what they're waiting for. I'm so lonely here, I just constantly feel like crying for loneliness.i finally made a friend but she no longer recognizes me. It's like the story of my life.

Sometimes psychotic · Aug 12, 2017, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird

Idk what to do. I wish I was dead.

Do you need to go IP?

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 09:45 AM

I don't know what to do. I might see about housing possibilities with my case manager when I see her again. I can't cut back anywhere in my budget. I literally have 25 dollars left after all my bills are paid and I get quarters for laundry. That 25 dollars has to go towards cat food and litter so that leaves me with nothing, no other money at all. It's not like I have internet or tv or a phone bill I could cut back on because I don't even have those things.

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Sometimes psychotic

Do you need to go IP?

No, I was just inpatient last month. Going inpatient isn't going to change the situation I'm in

cogladaid · Aug 12, 2017, 09:48 AM

I was groggy like five minutes ago but omg guys I feel so good now like everything is amazing I love I feel sooooo amazing this is AWESOME!!!!

Sometimes psychotic · Aug 12, 2017, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird

I don't know what to do. I might see about housing possibilities with my case manager when I see her again. I can't cut back anywhere in my budget. I literally have 25 dollars left after all my bills are paid and I get quarters for laundry. That 25 dollars has to go towards cat food and litter so that leaves me with nothing, no other money at all. It's not like I have internet or tv or a phone bill I could cut back on because I don't even have those things.

How much do you pay in rent.....supposedly it's not supposed to be more than35% of your budget....in reality I think 50% is reasonable. You might have to find a roommate?

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sometimes psychotic

How much do you pay in rent.....supposedly it's not supposed to be more than35% of your budget....in reality I think 50% is reasonable. You might have to find a roommate?

I live in a studio, it's just one small room. My rent is about $600 a month. My electric bill is around $120 a month. I get about $740 each month

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 09:54 AM

I think I've made my decision. I'm going to give my cats to the no kill shelter near here on the first of the month. Then I'm going to apply for some kind of housing through the agency my case manager works for. I hate to do it. You have no idea. It literally kills me. I love my cats so much, they are my reason for living

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 10:01 AM

I keep changing my mind. Maybe I'll just see how things go if I can get assistance with my electric bill and if I start school again I can take out a small loan and keep it in the bank for my cats in case they need anything

Sometimes psychotic · Aug 12, 2017, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird

I think I've made my decision. I'm going to give my cats to the no kill shelter near here on the first of the month. Then I'm going to apply for some kind of housing through the agency my case manager works for. I hate to do it. You have no idea. It literally kills me. I love my cats so much, they are my reason for living

I think applying for housing with you case manager is a good idea.....can you temporarily borrow money from family for the cats?

An alternate approach for housing is finding a room somewhere....at least near colleges there are often houses that are rented out by the room with shared kitchen and bathrooms......this is the cheapest by far if you can break your current lease.

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 10:03 AM

I guess If I've managed on this tight budget I can manage at least another year or so

Sometimes psychotic · Aug 12, 2017, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird

I keep changing my mind. Maybe I'll just see how things go if I can get assistance with my electric bill and if I start school again I can take out a small loan and keep it in the bank for my cats in case they need anything

I would not get rid of the cats unless you are 100% sure...

Blue_Bird · Aug 12, 2017, 10:05 AM

I'll see how things go, thanks everyone. Just stressed out, maybe it will all work out. I will update with how things are going

Findingreason · Aug 12, 2017, 10:06 AM

Good morning/afternoon everyone. How is everyone?

@Blue_Bird: I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. I've always struggled with finances so I feel the pain. I hope you are able to get the assistance you need.

I'm doing okay. I just need to eventually motivate myself to do household chores and cleaning...it's getting pretty bad. I need to shower, too...I'm so horrible at personal hygiene. Possibly going out for coffee tomorrow with a friend I haven't seen in a while, so it'll be nice.

ofthevalley · Aug 12, 2017, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird

Idk what to do. I wish I was dead.

Blue_Bird please don't think like that.

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