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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:15 PM
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lol maybe you should give them some water?


Damn girl lol. I’m chatting but there’s only so much chatting I can do lol.

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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:16 PM
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I got an okcupid account. I’ve actually never dated before. Out where I used to live I wasn’t interested in anyone. I moved to the city more than two years ago but I still haven’t dated.

I just had three guys message me I’m already overwhelmed.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:17 PM
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The bf said if we live together, after awhile he would just start calling me his wife....

Um...

Isnt that basically common law marriage. Actually yes it is, but only in a few states, one of them texas.

But um...what do you guys think about that?.....


I think generally if you live together in a relationship for 12 months it counts as common law so you have legal rights over property and **** like that if you ever break up.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:18 PM
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He'll come again in about 6 months, then we'll start doing the bureaucracy issues. Thinking about all those papers get me headache already. But yeah there are few requirements that he needs to fulfill first.
If I recall correctly, you have to get married in the country of where you plan on moving. I had married my wife in Finland on one trip before coming back a month later to move there for real. I could have stayed originally, but my family wanted to see me before I moved.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:18 PM
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Woke up after two hours of sleep again. Not sure whether I can go back to sleep. I guess Finding Reason is in a deep long sleep at the moment, haven’t seen her online since she said she was about to go to sleep. Long flight surely does tiring.
I hope you can sleep more soon.

Yup, I slept for like 9 hours. Then did a few things, wasn't feeling well, and slept another 5 hours. Now I am awake again.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:21 PM
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Good afternoon/evening everyone. How is everyone doing?

I'm okay. Woke up feeling like crap, my stomach gave me hell for a while. Slept more and now feeling a little better. Just caught up on roll call. Gonna be installing my i7 8700K in my computer soon.

I do have bad news though. Mom and I talked today, and my cockatiel Lucky passed away this morning. She lived to be almost 13 years old. I am so glad I got to see her before she passed. I will probably be crying my eyes out later tonight. I miss her. She was my baby.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:22 PM
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I think generally if you live together in a relationship for 12 months it counts as common law so you have legal rights over property and **** like that if you ever break up.


Thats not good. Because if we get married i need to have a pre-nup. Is that in canada?
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:24 PM
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If I recall correctly, you have to get married in the country of where you plan on moving. I had married my wife in Finland on one trip before coming back a month later to move there for real. I could have stayed originally, but my family wanted to see me before I moved.
Yeah I meant we’ll get married in states but we will do the preparation after he visits me again
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:25 PM
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Good afternoon/evening everyone. How is everyone doing?

I'm okay. Woke up feeling like crap, my stomach gave me hell for a while. Slept more and now feeling a little better. Just caught up on roll call. Gonna be installing my i7 8700K in my computer soon.

I do have bad news though. Mom and I talked today, and my cockatiel Lucky passed away this morning. She lived to be almost 13 years old. I am so glad I got to see her before she passed. I will probably be crying my eyes out later tonight. I miss her. She was my baby.
I’m sorry about Lucky
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:26 PM
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Good afternoon/evening everyone. How is everyone doing?

I'm okay. Woke up feeling like crap, my stomach gave me hell for a while. Slept more and now feeling a little better. Just caught up on roll call. Gonna be installing my i7 8700K in my computer soon.

I do have bad news though. Mom and I talked today, and my cockatiel Lucky passed away this morning. She lived to be almost 13 years old. I am so glad I got to see her before she passed. I will probably be crying my eyes out later tonight. I miss her. She was my baby.
I’m so sorry about your tiel 😰😰😰
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:32 PM
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Thats not good. Because if we get married i need to have a pre-nup. Is that in canada?


Yeah that’s in canada. I don’t know the big specifics but generally if you live together for that long and share a house it works something like that.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:33 PM
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Good afternoon/evening everyone. How is everyone doing?

I'm okay. Woke up feeling like crap, my stomach gave me hell for a while. Slept more and now feeling a little better. Just caught up on roll call. Gonna be installing my i7 8700K in my computer soon.

I do have bad news though. Mom and I talked today, and my cockatiel Lucky passed away this morning. She lived to be almost 13 years old. I am so glad I got to see her before she passed. I will probably be crying my eyes out later tonight. I miss her. She was my baby.


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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:38 PM
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Thats not good. Because if we get married i need to have a pre-nup. Is that in canada?
What do you need a prenup for I thought you were broke?
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:47 PM
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What do you need a prenup for I thought you were broke?


I am. Cash wise. Actual cash and bank accounts. But it has to do with the cars in my name right now. Thats my property. Plus stuff i would get when my parents pass away like multiple houses and multiple cars.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:49 PM
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Im broke. My parents arent. All i own right now is two cars really.

Im set to inherit a lot tho.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:55 PM
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Im broke. My parents arent. All i own right now is two cars really.

Im set to inherit a lot tho.
Hey, can you tell your mom/dad I need a grand lmao.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 04:59 PM
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When my tiel passed onto the next world I got this necklace to remember her by...
That's beautiful. Findingreason, I'm sorry to hear of your loss of Lucky.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 05:01 PM
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 05:17 PM
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 05:23 PM
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Me too!!!
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 05:26 PM
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Im broke. My parents arent. All i own right now is two cars really.

Im set to inherit a lot tho.


I don’t think a prenup covers anything you acquire during the marriage only what you have before.....but you’d have to check into it.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 05:27 PM
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That may be a password hint somewhere so I can’t really post it here.......
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 05:31 PM
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That may be a password hint somewhere so I can’t really post it here.......
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That may be a password hint somewhere so I can’t really post it here.......
lol that's how I broke into my friends Facebook account when we were fighting. XD;
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