Roll Call 143

ofthevalley · Feb 01, 2019, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty

I'm just at work. Trying to get distracted or absorbed into work but I don't have a lot to do...though my boss might come up with something. Not feeling well at all today. SUI thoughts. So I might be making a trip to the ER after work if things don't improve. No PDOC or T appointment available. So I'm like, crud...probably gotta spend the $250 to go to the ER. But I still have two and a half hours of work left and I just took some anti-anxiety medication so hopefully I'll start feeling better and not have to go. I have some things planned this weekend so I'm trying to look forward to that and not let these thoughts rule my head. Kit

hope you’re feeling a little better.

newtus · Feb 01, 2019, 05:56 PM

Success so far, havent called my mom.

I think its safe to say i wont today.

Findingreason · Feb 01, 2019, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Blue_Bird

You're doing great! Learning a new language takes a lot of time. Especially since you're learning one that's not Latin based, so very different from English.

I'm working on learning Italian still

Thanks.

Yeah, Finnish is among the most difficult languages for English speakers to learn. I really hope if I move myself along I can be ready for the citizenship test in 2020 or 2021. Holy crap. I meet my residency requirement for that next year.

That snuck up on me really quick.

Maybe we can motivate each other to work on language stuff

Erti · Feb 01, 2019, 07:26 PM

good luck on learning Finish.

falcon09 · Feb 01, 2019, 07:32 PM

Picked up my meds from the pharmacy and now going to get a chicken sandwich for dinner

Blue_Bird · Feb 01, 2019, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Findingreason

Thanks.

Yeah, Finnish is among the most difficult languages for English speakers to learn. I really hope if I move myself along I can be ready for the citizenship test in 2020 or 2021. Holy crap. I meet my residency requirement for that next year.

That snuck up on me really quick.

Maybe we can motivate each other to work on language stuff

That's a good idea

Feb 01, 2019, 08:15 PM

Met the roommate's new boyfriend. He seemed like a nice guy.

Erti · Feb 01, 2019, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Day Tripper

Met the roommate's new boyfriend. He seemed like a nice guy.

roommate approval eh?

Feb 01, 2019, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Erti

roommate approval eh?

hahaha! She had a flat tire and he helped her change her tire and take it to discount tire and then drove her back to our place and she let the dog out. Now he's taking her out to eat somewhere. He's scared of her dog. lol The dog nips at her boyfriends if she has anybody sleep over. Her dog wants her for himself only.

Erti · Feb 01, 2019, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Day Tripper

hahaha! She had a flat tire and he helped her change her tire and take it to discount tire and then drove her back to our place and she let the dog out. Now he's taking her out to eat somewhere. He's scared of her dog. lol The dog nips at her boyfriends if she has anybody sleep over. Her dog wants her for himself only.

lmao. selfish doggo.

Feb 01, 2019, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by newtus

Im so lost. Im so incredibly lost.

Idk what to do with my life. I have no idea. I just wish i knew what to do. Im lost.

Generally, people find purpose in helping others in some way. There's a lot of ways to help people though and it can be like a labyrinth when searching for an answer. I wanted to teach others by becoming a professor, well that ship didn't sail, it sank lol So I'm going to try and see if writing can help me there. My roommate wants to have kids, she feels as though that's her calling. My sister did an amazing job raising two women.

newtus · Feb 01, 2019, 10:15 PM

Bf asked my dad for my hand in marriage

Erti · Feb 01, 2019, 10:15 PM

what did your dad say?

newtus · Feb 01, 2019, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Erti

what did your dad say?

He said bf has his blessing!!!

Desoxyn · Feb 01, 2019, 10:46 PM

omg im so tired

Gr3tta_0 · Feb 02, 2019, 12:51 AM

This has been a rough week. And due to weather closings, I'm slammed at work. I stayed late to get as much done as possible, and i will again on Mon.
But Tues and Wed I'm off due to my wife's eye surgery.
Ideas for fun ways to decorate the eye patches welcome!!

Erti · Feb 02, 2019, 01:06 AM

maybe fun stickers for the eye patch?

Loial · Feb 02, 2019, 04:56 AM

Ugh.

I was supposed to be going for a gaming session at my friends with other people but I didn’t sleep well and am wracked with anxiety. So I’m not going to go. I just can’t face socialising today but I feel guilty. He’ll probably be pissed off.

Loial · Feb 02, 2019, 06:40 AM

So my friend was understanding. I guess I was worried he wouldn’t be for no reason.

OliverB · Feb 02, 2019, 08:55 AM

It's snowing

junkDNA · Feb 02, 2019, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by newtus

I just got into an argument with my mom.

Im so fcking devastated.

At first, she didnt wanna talk about marriage cuz she said common law is touchy subject for her. Cuz her and my dad had that and she hates him.

Then, she said “if u marry (the bf) youll be on food stamps and welfare. Can u live with that?”

THEN! She said we are immature about everything cuz we dont have a plan (when we do). Ive tried explaining it to her but BACK to square one, she didnt want to talk about marriage!

Everything just kept going down him. Til i said “im getting off the phone because i dont want to be belittled. And she yelled “WELL ITS TRUE!”.

I told her i was getting off the phone. And shes like “well dont talk to me about engagement or marriage anymore”. I took that as she doesn’t give a fck.

So yea.

I mean disability is technically welfare

junkDNA · Feb 02, 2019, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by cogladaid

I’m having those thoughts again go off your meds go off your meds go off your meds there are messages in music and you’re missing them go off your meds.

I missed my meds last night just went to sleep too tired and missed them. I was fine today except for the thoughts above. I took them tonight.

messages about what?