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Old Dec 06, 2011, 04:42 PM
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Hi everyone,

I tend to have the bad habit of telling myself that I HAVE to do this homework, and HAVE to work on it for a certain amount of time. Usually, it's an overwhelming goal for me, such as 1 hour. When that happens, my mind goes into panic mode and becomes paralyzed. I find that I cannot do any work at all because I'm so worried about falling short of that unrealistic goal.

So what I began a couple of weeks ago...was to tell myself that I only needed to do 10 minutes of school work. Because it seemed like such a small amount of time, I started the homework with a lot less pressure, and almost all of the time, ended up doing A LOT more than the minimal 10 minutes. Sometimes, about an hour of homework, without that horrible feeling of pressure!

So I have been setting this small goal on a daily basis, and it makes doing that school work a whole lot easier.

Does anybody else use this strategy?
Thanks for this!
HalfSwede, natani_girl

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Old Dec 06, 2011, 06:08 PM
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ahhh, that sounds like such a great idea! Thank you so much, I've had so much trouble with my math homework, and this sounds like it could work 4 me!
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Old Dec 06, 2011, 09:09 PM
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Does anybody else use this strategy?
No, but I'm going to try it right now!!
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Old Dec 08, 2011, 02:49 AM
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Interesting! Nice method, melissa.recovering!
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