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Old Jul 11, 2016, 02:06 AM
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Last week our internet was down for an evening because the router broke. I'm currently obsessed with a show on Netflix and so it was really hard to go without watching it that night. I have gotten into a routine of getting home from work, eating a quick dinner, then vegging out for the rest of the night binge watching a show until I'm falling asleep. It's been really nice the past few weeks because I just started a new job and this has been a way of comforting / relaxing me. However, that night without internet really opened my eyes to how much time I actually spend on TV.

So I'm going to try giving up TV this week and see if it improves my mental health / well-being / life. I'm sure there will be pros and cons that come up so this is my mini experiment to see what those are.
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Old Jul 11, 2016, 12:29 PM
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Hi,
I will be moving in Sept, and will be w/o tv and wifi for a bit. I too, know that I am watching way too much tv, and on the internet way too much. I will use this opportunity to make some changes in my life, I hope............ Either that or I will go "bonkers" without it.
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Old Jul 11, 2016, 01:52 PM
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Haha, good luck Hairball! Good to know I'm not alone. Hope you don't go "bonkers."
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Old Jul 13, 2016, 02:50 AM
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Wow I'm not sure I could but I really need to limit the amount that I watch.... at least I'm not alone in this

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Old Jul 13, 2016, 04:11 AM
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Interesting thread. I waste too much time playing games on my iPad. I'm aware of it too...I come home, sink into an arm chair for a couple of hours, get up, cook dinner, then back to the chair. Not healthy for me. I wish you luck!
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Old Jul 13, 2016, 01:17 PM
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I am guilty of this as well I get off of work cook dinner, and watch a show although I will mix it up with books in between. It is just my form of relaxation I'm going to try a gym though maybe that will help me.
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Old Jul 19, 2016, 11:39 PM
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It's been a little over a week and at first I was REALLY bored! It's hard to think of things to do that match the relaxation level of TV for me. I ended up reading a lot, started learning a new language, and cleaned the whole house from top to bottom. So that leads to my pros and cons list...

Pros of Quitting TV
I have so much more time.
I can focus on other things.
I am more productive.
I felt a lot better about myself because I am not comparing my life or my body to the actress' on TV.

Cons of Giving Up TV
It is missed dearly.
I can't stay up to date with everyone who is watching TV on the latest developments in shows.
I forget the day of the week easily because I don't have certain shows to look forward to.
It can be replaced with other unhealthy habits like too much internet, video games, sleeping, etc.
Life can be less relaxing if I don't find an equally satisfying source of entertainment.

So there you have it. I skipped TV for a week and felt a big hole at first, but as I filled in the gaps with other things to do I found I was pleasantly surprised with how much I enjoyed them. Overall, I have learned that there is a place for TV in my life and I can still watch it from time to time with this is mind. No need to be extreme here! I think I will pick a few favorite shows to follow and watch an episode 2-3 times a week.
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Old Jul 20, 2016, 02:34 AM
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Well done! Started learning a new language! You are awesome!
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Old Jul 20, 2016, 02:48 PM
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Thank you Ceridwen!!
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Old Jul 21, 2016, 09:44 AM
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Last week our internet was down for an evening because the router broke. I'm currently obsessed with a show on Netflix and so it was really hard to go without watching it that night. I have gotten into a routine of getting home from work, eating a quick dinner, then vegging out for the rest of the night binge watching a show until I'm falling asleep. It's been really nice the past few weeks because I just started a new job and this has been a way of comforting / relaxing me. However, that night without internet really opened my eyes to how much time I actually spend on TV.

So I'm going to try giving up TV this week and see if it improves my mental health / well-being / life. I'm sure there will be pros and cons that come up so this is my mini experiment to see what those are.


i hate when the internet goes down- sorry you had to go through that... it's happened to me too, and trust me if it happened to me, you'll know about it

i'm not sure if i could give up tv- their is so much stuff i watch, and so many movies i enjoy

i think if i gave up tv, the danger is being addicted to the internet and all the streaming sites such as amazon prime or netflix.
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Old Jul 21, 2016, 09:47 AM
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It's been a little over a week and at first I was REALLY bored! It's hard to think of things to do that match the relaxation level of TV for me. I ended up reading a lot, started learning a new language, and cleaned the whole house from top to bottom. So that leads to my pros and cons list...

Pros of Quitting TV
I have so much more time.
I can focus on other things.
I am more productive.
I felt a lot better about myself because I am not comparing my life or my body to the actress' on TV.

Cons of Giving Up TV
It is missed dearly.
I can't stay up to date with everyone who is watching TV on the latest developments in shows.
I forget the day of the week easily because I don't have certain shows to look forward to.
It can be replaced with other unhealthy habits like too much internet, video games, sleeping, etc.
Life can be less relaxing if I don't find an equally satisfying source of entertainment.

So there you have it. I skipped TV for a week and felt a big hole at first, but as I filled in the gaps with other things to do I found I was pleasantly surprised with how much I enjoyed them. Overall, I have learned that there is a place for TV in my life and I can still watch it from time to time with this is mind. No need to be extreme here! I think I will pick a few favorite shows to follow and watch an episode 2-3 times a week.


which shows do you watch?

(and which ones do you think you would miss)
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Old Jul 21, 2016, 04:07 PM
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I could actually see that happening to me, I have an addictive personality period. So if I have no tv, and no wifi..............what the heck will I get addicted to instead........lol.
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I need to turn off the TV and limit my internet time. I used to do art but no longer do
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Old Jul 22, 2016, 10:32 PM
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Shattered -
1. Mr. Robot - sooooooo good! Could not live without it lol
2. House of Cards

Those are my top 2 at least, what about you?
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Old Jul 23, 2016, 05:09 AM
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Shattered -
1. Mr. Robot - sooooooo good! Could not live without it lol
2. House of Cards

Those are my top 2 at least, what about you?


if you're asking which ones i'd miss,

1. benidorm. a life without benidorm is not worth the living (such a funny commedy!)

2. wayward pines (i actually love it, didn't think i would, but i do)

3. family guy (can never stop watching that!)

4. south park

5. the chase (okay it's only a game show, but it's still really good!)

isn't mr robot about someone with social anxiety or something
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Old Jul 23, 2016, 06:44 AM
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I gave up TV a long long time ago. It was painful at first but I don't think I could have done anything better to enhance my life.

When one creates a vacuum by removing something other things will fill the space. I think the trick is to prepare things that you want to fill the space.
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Old Jul 23, 2016, 06:56 PM
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Yes he has something along those lines, but I'm not exactly sure what. I love his perspective / thoughts on society. And can relate to his social anxiety. It's a really good show. I'll have to try out some of your shows!
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 10:28 PM
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It's possible?! Thanks for sharing

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Old Jul 27, 2016, 05:05 PM
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Giving up TV for me is kinda easy but I don't think internet will be much easier. Perhaps, I need to focus first on other things to lessen those habits.
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I think the TV and internet go hand in hand. I am okay with giving up TV because I mainly use it as background noise to fall asleep to. If it wasn't for my friend I wouldn't watch it at all. I enjoy TV maybe 2-3 times a week, but I have been noticing that when I get comfortable (no matter what time of day it is) I fall asleep.
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