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Mar 17, 2010, 09:45 PM
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Things have just been getting worse I'm in such a funk! I'm tired of everything! It's the same thing over and over. And I know everyone is getting tired of me posting but I just need to get it off my chest. It's always the same day over and over again. My kids just constantly fight and I have no help whatsoever. I tell them to stip and they don't. I give them time out, take away things they enjoy, early betime but they just don't care. I've cut twice so far and I'm trying so hard to keep myself from doing it more. I wish tomorrow at 1 would hurry up and get here!
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#2
Mar 17, 2010, 09:55 PM
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hun im so sorry
 kids can be really hard some times, i wish you the best and if you ever need to talk im always here for you
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I wanna heal, I wanna feel Like Im close to something real I wanna find something ive wanted all along Somewhere I belong? he who does not feel me is not real to me Therefore he doesn't exist So poof...vamoose you sob What's wrong with the world, mama People livin' like they ain't got no mamas I think the whole world addicted to the drama Only attracted to things that'll bring you trauma And to discriminate only generates hate And when you hate then you're bound to get irate, can we pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars? i can really use a wish right now. i'm not afraid to take a stand Everybody come take my hand We'll walk this road together, through the storm Whatever weather, cold or warm Just let you know that, you're not alone Holla if you feel that you've been down the same road I'mma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly And all those who look down on me I'm tearing down your balcony |
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#3
Mar 17, 2010, 10:01 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate it! And hugs to you too!
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#4
Mar 17, 2010, 10:07 PM
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Beleive me I understand about how things feel like they are the same things over and over. You are NOT alone in what you are going through. We are all here for each other. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE......do not cut!!!
When you get on here, find someone to chat through those feelings. And sometimes it acutally helps when you cant see the person, you are more apt to be open. Do not cut...think about your kids....be strong! 
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#5
Mar 17, 2010, 10:11 PM
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Hugs honey. Slow down. I know its tough. xxxx
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#6
Mar 17, 2010, 10:14 PM
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Thank you! Hugs to you too.
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#7
Mar 17, 2010, 10:18 PM
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you are seeing your T tomorrow?
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#8
Mar 17, 2010, 10:20 PM
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Yea and I am so ready!
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#9
Mar 17, 2010, 10:35 PM
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Thats good honey. I have to go to bed. So have a good one tomorrow xxxxhugsxxxx
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#10
Mar 18, 2010, 03:43 AM
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angie how are you doing?
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#11
Mar 18, 2010, 10:16 AM
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Hope the session with the therapist helped.
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#12
Mar 18, 2010, 11:01 AM
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I'm still not doing good at all. Sorry I got off of here last night.
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#13
Mar 18, 2010, 11:17 AM
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How was your visit today? xx
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#14
Mar 18, 2010, 12:40 PM
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I'm on my way now. I will let yall know how it goes.
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Mar 18, 2010, 12:53 PM
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It is so normal for siblings to fight. One thing that really fuels it is jealousy of the attention that each other gets from the parents. Kids think that there is only so much love and attention and what the other sibling gets comes out of their share. Giving them each positive attention will help with this. Positive attention alone and directing the kids in positive activities really helps to get out of a negative cycle. A negative cycle is when the kids misbehave, you get upset and scold them, etc., they drive you crazy so you try to avoid them, they want your attention and they have come to understand that to get it they need to cause trouble because the cycle has come to the point where this is basically the only time the parent interacts with them anymore. Starting on a positive cycle really helps. Sit and talk with them, play with them, don't yell.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Mar 18, 2010, 03:37 PM
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Thank you. I spend all the time with them when they are out of school. And I give them both equal attention. I don't like it when people play favoritism between kids. They are equal. And we spend our days outside ( when its nice out and not raining).
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Mar 18, 2010, 03:41 PM
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I went to my appointment and I was able to talk to them. My niece came with me so she could watch the kids while I talked to them. She put me on celexa and colonapan. I've been on those before but it was seperate times. And they also said that it might be a good idea for me to be hospitalized so they are going to see what they can do. I go back in 2 weeks.
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#18
Mar 18, 2010, 03:46 PM
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I hope you feel better now Angie. Did you feel it was helpful?
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Mar 18, 2010, 03:49 PM
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Thank you. I still feel down. Right after I felt a little better but now I'm back to feeling the same. I'm just really worn out. I'm just ready to crawl in the bed and just cry.
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#20
Mar 19, 2010, 08:03 AM
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THis sounds like a good start. I'm very glad that you went. So the visit was basically medical and there wasn't any therapy?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#21
Mar 19, 2010, 10:22 AM
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Thank you. Yea it was just medical this time. No therapy. I have to wait till next time for that.
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#22
Mar 19, 2010, 10:28 AM
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Take it easy dear. If you feel like crying - cry. Hugs xxxxxx
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#23
Mar 19, 2010, 10:48 AM
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Thank you. I'm trying. And I've been doing nothing but crying. My eyes are so puffy. Hugs to you too.
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#24
Mar 19, 2010, 01:01 PM
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I know how hard it is. Thank you for the hugs.
You know, I find that it helps to think about the things you do have. Like your kids. You are very lucky. Hugs honey xxx |
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#25
Mar 19, 2010, 01:15 PM
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When is "next time" Angie?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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