[inkblot]

...has this ever happened to you, without telling you what happened?

[dottie]

I would say yes. Seems like we have all been there (just about) wherever THERE is!! LIFE is like that.

[inkblot]

I mean how do I ask about a particular situation ever happening to you, without me even telling you what that is?

[allthegirls6]

inky, i imagine that whatever it is you want answers one, some of us will probably have some experience of it. However, you need to feel safe about what you post and it seems to me that you want to be careful. Careful is good, is sort of says you are looking after you and the sensitive/vulnerable feelings you have around this thing that is bothering you.

So, maybe when you are ready you can say. But only when it feels right for you.

All the gilrls

[dottie]

Depends on how close you are to the person being asked...AND the question to be asked.I mean you'd have to be really close to that person.

Maybe I'm missing a beat here. Are you talkin' about psychic stuff? Because that happens to moi ...and I have gotten in trouble with my inferences uttered out loud to someone. Whooee.I have found that no one likes a psychic...so I keeps me mouth shut now. Saves problems.

Happy Halloween

[inkblot]

Inky,

Maybe you can find someone you trust to PM with?

I'm sure there are people in this forum who would help you out.

I'm not a cutter, but I'm a good listener.

Petunia

[bipolar_bear]

Inky I am a cutter and I would not mind if you needed someone to talk to if you PM me. I am sorry your post got deleted but everyones welfare needs to be considered in any post. I hope it does not stifle you in future posts. My offer stands if you ever want someone to talk to. I too am a good listener and would like to t hink that I may understand what you are going through.

[inkblot]

I still see that it was an appropriate post for my needs. Not even marking the post with a graphic/trigger warning could have been done? I read a post in another section here about OD'ing and that is something which could be triggering for me as well. I have done that, too, and I still have thoughts about it and want to do it. After reading a post about it, yeah, I am thinking about it more and how nice it would feel to do some damage. I'm not sure that there really are clear cut (pardon the pun, not intended) standings on how to define what posts are marked as triggers as to those that get deleted. Some even get edited. I am sorry this has gotten off topic, but my frustration from this and every other blabbin thing in my life has me wanting to cut more and go deeper and to peel off the scabs and make things bleed, and to purge everything I eat and OD on something to take me out of this reality. I am so freak'in tired of it. I am sorry, but this is my mood of the moment. I just came from seeing my T, so I have even more thoughts happening. Like I said, why bother. I would guess that there might even be a possibility of the this post being locked if opinions run rampant on site issues, but I just don't care right now. I am venting about alot of things and I need an outlet. I have no support system but the internet and my T. I already saw my T, and might not be able to see him for another 3 weeks. I am sorry, but this is it.

[LMo]