something that torchs me off

I was at work today and one coworker was very blunt with me. She saw some of my scars and was upset. Well today she tells me she could of hit me for doing it. Now i know she cares but gosh dont talk about it. I mean its MY problem even if it affects others its still mine to work with. I choose weather to stop or not. And it just pist me off. She use to do it for attention. SO is that what im doing this for ATTENTION. Ican give a rats *** about attention. I do this for my emotions. She should keep her big mouth shut. NOT THE PROPER TIME TO TELL ME THIS. Just ticked me off.

Sorry she was so insensitive to you {{{{black}}}} Don't let her get to you, you know the hows/whys she doesn't. Try to let her comments go, if at all possible, they aren't helpful to you =)

I really hate people who do that for attention! It's an insult to cutters everywhere who have real problems! I mean sure the attention-seekers have problems but I think the real cutters have it worse! Sorry had to get that out!

Anyways, tell her to ***** off! It's your business not hers. She's acting all high and mighty and everything, but she's not. I hate when people do that. You don't deserve that. Unlike some people, you have very sensitive feelings!

Ok, that really makes me angry that people treat you this way...I'm here for ya girl! Hang in there!

that sucks.... not only that she got on your case about it-at work (!) but that she thinks that she has the right to want to 'hit' you b/c of it, seeing how she used to do it for attention.... I doubt that you showed your scars/cuts into her face asking for her to look at them.... did you say something to her? these are the kind of people that bring about that stigma that someone who si or has an ed does it for attention... but if someone is trying to hide it, how the hell is that for attention? sure some people do it b/c of that, but she should have been a little bit more sensitive to the issue, but I guess that just shows you that she really doesn't understand... and just assumes she gets it. you don't owe her or anyone else an explanation. as you said, it's your responsibility to deal w/ this, not anyone else's.

(((blackdragon)))

Most people don't really understand what this is all about. I know that doesn't make it any less irritating, but just try and mark it off to her ignorance. Most people think they know something because they knew an "attention-seeker" back in high school, so when they see similar behavior, they think it's the same problem.