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Apr 18, 2006, 12:23 PM
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been hating some of them lately
stupid bear still being punished for being so stupid a long time ago grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr  back to cryptic posts and doubt if i will ever feel safe to post differently. feel hopeless 
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Apr 18, 2006, 12:31 PM
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Fuzzy, you have never been a bad bear !!!!! not stupid either !!!!!! a long time ago you were only a cub. Please don't feel hopeless, there is hope for us all.
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Apr 18, 2006, 01:11 PM
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When you are ready Fuzzy - we'll be waiting.
Take your time - there is no rush. You are, and always will be, loved and so highly thought of.
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Apr 18, 2006, 03:30 PM
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((((((((((((((fuzzybear))))))))))))))
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Apr 18, 2006, 05:03 PM
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Fuzzy, you are one of the brightest bears (or people for that matter) that I know. I understand how you feel though, because I feel so stupid for things in my past too. I'm sorry that you are having a hard time and don't feel comfortable saying what you mean and what you feel. For now, let us know when you need support any way you can, and when you want to talk some more we'll be ready.
Luv Ya, Rap
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Apr 18, 2006, 05:47 PM
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Fuzzy, Im so sorry you are feeling this way.
But you know, like it was said, a long time ago you were just a bearcub, and you were still learning. And you know what else? Your a different person now than you were then  Either way, I care for you and hope you feel better soon. and even if you must post cryptic, at least we know so we can shower you with  
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Apr 18, 2006, 06:47 PM
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 We all think you are the most wonderful, fuzzybear who brings lots of sunshine into our lives and want to send you sunshine too and great big bear hugs  You are not a bad bear and we all learn from the past. Sometimes, we blame ourselves and it wasn't even our fault, we were just little and couldn't protect ourselves.Take your time - cryptic is fine if that's what you need - just so we know you're doing okay or doing not so okay. Huggssss, Songbird and Daisy
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Apr 18, 2006, 10:35 PM
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Fuzzy I am so sorry that you are feeling so bad. You are nowhere near a bad bear. Take care of yourself. I am here when you are ready for hugs.
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Apr 19, 2006, 02:28 PM
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Thank you everyone!
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Apr 19, 2006, 06:40 PM
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Awwwww, Fuzzy. Is it OK if I give you a hug from one bear to another? I can understand how you feel; sometimes I feel like that myself. But I can say that to me you have always been a sweet and kind bear, deserving of much love and happiness.
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Apr 19, 2006, 07:54 PM
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Thanks for replying Candy, the hugs are ok and it helps to know I am not the only one who feels that way sometimes
 Bearhugs, Fuzzy
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Apr 20, 2006, 04:06 AM
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You have grown, bear. And while we at PC might let you regress from time to time for a little bit, we will not allow you to stay in the place you are now! You are not stupid, you are not mean, no part of you is. We all make mistakes. We have all made mistakes in the past, and yes, sometimes they continue to affect us. But they are limited, as we are grown wiser now, and stronger. May all of you know that it's ok to not punish yourself for past mistakes
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Apr 20, 2006, 05:40 AM
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Fuzzy,
I guess I didn't read your initial post too closely. Sorry. It's been really confusing lately and anxiety so high I don't "hear" everything. Feel like I drank a pot of coffe most of the time - speeding mind. So sorry if I hurt you by sending big bear hugs. It was not my intention. Like I said, my mind is not processing things correctly right now. But, it is getting better. Shall I erase my bear hugs for you? They were ment with love but can understand how they might be upsetting. Sorry again, hun. Songbird
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Apr 20, 2006, 06:23 PM
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Thanks Songbird and it's ok, I understood! I totally know what you mean about not hearing/processing things correctly sometimes (it sucks)
Take care hon, Fuzzy
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Apr 20, 2006, 06:27 PM
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Thank you Sky and I respect your opinion that I have grown (despite regressing a bit sometimes, I am only human/bear
) Your post is very helpful and it might actually sink into my bear brain which has such trouble with this and similar issues regarding punishing for past mistakes ggggrrrrrrThanks again Sky Fuzzy
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