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Nov 14, 2012, 06:34 AM
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Ok so today i was in HPE(health and physical education) phys ed for most anyway we had theroy and this one guy just kept pushing and pushing me so i almost went to the other guy(personality disorder) and beat the crap(Sorry for swearing) out of him but i did not then he started to talk ****(sorry for swearing again cant think of other things to say) about my friend so i ended up crying in class and then to everyones surprise i started to stab myself with my pen and the teacher just called the office and they sent me home only to be later transferred to the hospital damn that kid is annoying but the worst thing is i have that class 3 times a week FFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
 can anyone give me any help on controling self harm cause it will happen again and i need LOVE i am so depressed right now
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Nov 14, 2012, 08:05 AM
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Aww I am so sorry this stupid moron was horrible. ((Hugs))
I don't have much advice. But could you not just leave? Like walk out the glass. You don't have to listen to people negative talk. And surely a good teacher would know what's happening with you and be able to see if some one is pushing you to your limits. Grr it makes me angry that no one has stood up for you. Please try to keep yourself safe. Massive ((hugs)) xx |
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Nov 14, 2012, 09:27 AM
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I teach a bully program and what I have found is that he is bothering you because he is getting a reaction from you. You are reacting because you feel bad about yourself and he is triggering this. The kids I work with get the bullying to stop by not reacting anymore. They stop reacting by realizing that they are not a bad person. When they truly feel better about themselves, the bullies can't get a reaction out of them and they stop because they want the reaction and if they can't get one they aren't going to waste their time. So if you can work on why you feel bad about yourself and why you should feel good about yourself, this will help a lot. I can help you here if you want.
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Nov 14, 2012, 09:38 AM
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I read your introduction thread and it seems you have a lot of anger. This needs to be dealt with to with all of this bully program work. Can you get a therapist to help with all of this? You can write out your anger here too. Do you still live with your dad?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Nov 14, 2012, 04:37 PM
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Yes i am still living with my asshole of a Dad
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When people ask me what depression feels like I just tell them that it feels like you want to kill yourself for not being good enough |
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Nov 15, 2012, 10:28 AM
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Is he still abusing you physically or only mentally and emotionally now?
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Nov 16, 2012, 06:47 AM
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Mainly mentally and emotionally where is this bully program
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Nov 16, 2012, 08:34 AM
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The website is www.bullies2buddies.com I adjusted the program a bit, however, after using it to include more self worth work. And remember that your self worth is low because of your dad.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Nov 17, 2012, 06:59 AM
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Thanks Sannah
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