[AngelWolf3]

Really really want to sh today. Like I have already thought about what I will do when I get home as far as where and what I am going to use out of my stuff that i have at home. But I guess part of me is trying to convince myself not to, although that part of me is not as loud as the part that wants to leave some new marks over my fading ones.

I don't get it. Why do people have to trivialize the crap in my head. Maybe that's why I want to s-h? I was talking to my friend about a money issue and of course it was the same person who was not so kind with me about my other issue [sexual/gender forum] and he was like "don't make it bigger than it is, you are overreacting" but all angry and parental, not talking to me like an adult. (it doesn't look bad written down at all, I wish you could hear his condescending tone) Oh well. I feel dumb for even posting this (as I do most of my threads I start unless it's game-related)

I guess I just need to try to get it out some other way before I leave work so that I don't go home and wreck the last couple weeks of not sh.

Thanks for reading, if you did.

[pegasus]

((((( Wolfin3 ))))) Please be safe.

[Sannah]

Originally Posted by Wolfin3

Why do people have to trivialize the crap in my head. I was talking to my friend about a money issue .....and he was like "don't make it bigger than it is, you are overreacting" but all angry and parental, not talking to me like an adult. (... I wish you could hear his condescending tone)

I wouldn't like that either. Could you say something to him if he ever does it again? Tell him that you didn't like his condescending tone and that he trivialized your concerns?

This is actually how guys problem solve though. They minimize things. This is how they deal with their issues. Woman want simply to be heard. I told this to my husband and he deals with me the woman's way now. Once I was listening to a guy at work and I minimized his issue and he loved it and felt much better.

[notz]

(((((Wolfin))))))

I understand sh from past experiences. Just want you to know I'm here for you.

Hi Wolfin
You have a Big fan in Texas. I just wanted you to know that I'm here too.

[AngelWolf3]

Sannah, that is a good idea, I didn't think of that; it is hard to talk to him but maybe I can give it a go about that issue. Quite interesting about your co-worker, too!

I ended doing a BUNCH of distracting last night. Made some cookies, played the piano, did some dishes...managed to get away with just (possible trigger ahead)*************sterilizing stuff for use, if that makes sense, but didn't DO anything with it, so I made it through!

Thank you guys for your hugs and responses...!

[Sannah]

Good work in distracting!

Good luck with everything.

[likewater]

hi, wolfin. glad you stayed safe. i don't know what other issues you are dealing with, but i'll look for other post so i can support you. love you 100%.

[notz]

How's it going, Wolfin?