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Oct 05, 2013, 10:06 PM
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My husband tried to commit suicide with one of my self harming tools. He's physically fine but I'm left feeling horribly violated. Not only that but I feel my tools have been tainted. On top of that I feel guilty for being so selfish. How do I get over this? I really don't want to bring this up to T.
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Oct 06, 2013, 10:05 AM
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That sounds really rough, but I wouldn't say you're being selfish. I think it's a pretty normal reaction to a weird situation. I hope you and your husband are receiving the help you need.
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Oct 06, 2013, 04:45 PM
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Wow that situation is unnerving in so many ways. Having never been in the situation, I don't know the best way to advise you to deal with it - but I do believe that your feelings are highly justifiable.
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Oct 06, 2013, 05:37 PM
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wow, ouch. (hugs) it may be good to talk to T about that...
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Oct 06, 2013, 07:03 PM
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I agree, even if you don't want discuss it with your therapist. It's a good idea too anyway. I think you will need to have help to sort this out for yourself. Best wishes to you and your husband.
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Oct 06, 2013, 10:14 PM
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I don't think you're being selfish in the very slightest.
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Oct 07, 2013, 12:00 AM
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Thank-you for saying I'm not selfish. This is such a cluster ****. I'm sure by now T and HT have talked, they share a wall. They were both very concerned about both of us and our relationship. My T had no idea that I have a little kit. We had only talked about SI 2x and history not current at all. I think this will a tough session.
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