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Dec 03, 2014, 09:19 PM
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I guess she was "right"
  She screamed at me "you should be punished all your life" And all the T had to say was "she was distressed" and how I wasn't "endearing" (deleted) Doesn't matter that I deal with constant emotional pain, multiple traumas don't matter, horrible unspeakable health issues don't matter, I don't matter, so get that into your thick head paws it's always always your fault, always was always will be
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Dec 03, 2014, 09:48 PM
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Oh Fuzzy I am so sorry that you have to say that and sorrier still that you had to go through it in the first place. None of it was ever your fault!!!!!
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Dec 03, 2014, 10:11 PM
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This was not just any abuser, it was a childhood abuser. The voices of childhood echo the longest. ((((((( Dear Fuzzybear! )))))))
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Dec 04, 2014, 06:26 PM
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Fuzzy, all that DOES matter, you DO matter and it WASN'T your fault!!!!
 Maybe your T was trying to find a reason for it, but that doesn't mean it can be excused, it doesn't make it right or deserved, abuse is ALWAYS going to be wrong. And how the **** does your T know how "endearing" you were or weren't!!!!! And I'll tell you if you were being abused there's every justification for you not being "endearing" towards her!!! And last rant  even if you were anything but "endearing" then that doesn't give anyone the right to abuse you. In fact they should be extra attentive, caring, supportive, in getting to the route of any problems you might be having, in helping you feel more content..........But in the here and now...........well you know that you shouldn't be punished for her failings, right?? Just as much as she shouldn't have any right at all to continue hurting you........I know it does hurt..........but you know you deserve more/better, right??!! So maybe try to see the good person you are in our eyes a bit more, and how much other people (including us!!) care about you. I really do know it doesn't make the rest "just go away" but at least you've ended up being recognised for the amazing person you are and have finally found the caring you truely deserve. The caring you deserved back then. Alison |
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Dec 04, 2014, 11:10 PM
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Fuzzy, I'm so sorry. What a terrible thing to say to a child! What a destructive comment. This was not your fault. You should have been told that you were precious and that you mattered. Everyone needs to hear that regularly. Fuzzy, you are precious and you matter. I'm glad you posted.
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Dec 05, 2014, 10:18 AM
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Dec 08, 2014, 09:20 PM
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Dec 13, 2014, 07:51 AM
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You do matter Fuzzy....you matter a hell of a lot and don't let that evil garbage (abuser) make you believe any different
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Dec 21, 2014, 03:54 PM
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It is never your fault. Never never never.
You are loved. They were faulty. You ARE enduring. And endearing. Hugs!!!!!
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Dec 21, 2014, 05:30 PM
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You matter to me and you make a big positive input in my life. She was wrong. You don't need to be punished. I wish you could see how sweet and endearing you really are.
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Dec 23, 2014, 05:31 PM
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 dearest fuzzy, if my heart were not already broken it would be now, your post is definately one of the saddest and most unjust things i have ever read. you are the bravest kindest bear and everybody here loves you to the moon and back
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Dec 25, 2014, 01:27 AM
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Fuzzy, I'm so sorry about what you're going through. You are a good person who deserves happiness and peace. You have always deserved happiness and peace. You do good work here.
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Dec 25, 2014, 10:18 AM
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i agree, fuzzy you're an awsome person (((((hugs))))) |
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Dec 25, 2014, 11:28 AM
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you matter so much, fuzzybear. your abuser was cruel and wrong. you are so fricking important.
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Dec 30, 2014, 11:07 PM
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How are you doing, Fuzzy?
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